Do boys never move on from their first love?

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ScienceThumper · Accepted Answer

First time I had a huge boner while looking at a provocative ass in front of me, was my teacher in middle school. Is she my first love? Because I wouldn't mind never remembering her again. I guess I moved on.

systemsareyo · Accepted Answer

I'm so glad I sure have moved on from so many love interests. I'm glad that it fades with time and aging, and it's often a result of realising, if a woman isn't interested or flirting back, then I don't bother. If I'm not even pursued by a woman or asked out by a woman, again flirty, then I don't bother them and i move on with my life. Lol I'm obviously still single because I've just either never dated a woman yet or because my own life circumstances don't have the time to support a relationship. A friends with benefits or a fling is one thing, I don't have the time for a woman girlfriend or a woman wife. Lol. I have enough scheduling lol work, family, friends, hobbies, 😆

TenderFantasy · Accepted Answer

That would suck if they didn't.

Plus, it would probably depend on how old they were when they first experienced it.

Older teen? definitely.

Twenty something? definitely!

Thirty something? Okay, sure like is there a choice? Lol. Especially if they were the ones broken up with. Same with a woman..

gayesblog · Accepted Answer

Boys, like anyone, can move on from their first love. It's about personal growth and experiences. While the first love is memorable, it's not always defining. Over time, as they mature and meet new people, I believe that they learn to open their hearts again. :)

Flatmanlewis · Answer

Absolutely. Not only iced on but I recognize how good it was that I did so.

In fact, with life experience and a lived life I am actually very, very, grateful it didn’t work out. The ignorance of youth led me to believe that if I loved her enough then it was all we needed. It was many years ago that I realized in reality there are many, many, factors to a healthy, compatible, and successful relationship than just love.

I learned a little of something from every relationship I’ve ever been in but those lessons took the longest to arrive and were the best in the long run.

sawno · Answer

Oh I completely moved on from my first and second love, in hindsight they were not special. Its my last love who is still in my heart since she was incredible, but at the same time that doesn't mean I don't have a place for someone new. I'm a very loving guy and once I meet the right girl I can love her to the fullest with true loyalty.

frankk37 · Answer

Maybe it's true. But life will make you do it.

As for my personal experience, It was very painfully going through a break up with my first girlfriend (she cheated on me). I've been suffering for over a year, so it was terrible. A few years later, I accidentally met her on the street (a common thing for my small town) and we had a little conversation. Yes, a lot has changed since the time when we had a relationship, and I suddenly realized that I no longer have any romantic feelings for her. It was the best feeling ever.

abc3643 · Answer

We often can although it may take years. However, there may come a long that we never really get over. In two days, it will be the 32nd anniversary of my losing such a relationship. I moved on and got married eventually, but I never really recovered. So, frankly, I've been undead for 30+ years.

WhiteSteve · Answer

Sometimes I struggle to remember her last name, which I feel bad about. To be fair…. I’m bad with names, even if we dated for four years, lmfao

But in seriousness, I’m well over it, and all the faux-loves of the past. Life is long, you just keep on truckin’.

RingOfFire · Answer

Depends on how you define "moved on." There is no way I would consider going back to my first love. It was an immature love, not a complete love. But you don't know that until you get older and wiser.

But... does that mean that love doesn't still hold a special place inside? No, it doesn't. It was beautiful in its way and never forgotten. So in that sense I didn't "move on" and likely never will.

Sonorous · Answer

yeah no we just kinda stand there after it's over. never moving forward or really doing anything afterward. Exactly like an npc with no objective. Just souless & waiting for instruction 🧍

Saiesh30 · Answer

How did you ask it just now? 😭🙈 It's been years and just yesterday after giving into the urge I texted her after so many years.  Conclusion - I couldn't move on 💔

AviatorTom · Answer

I can only speak for myself. I still (occasionally) think about my first love, fond memories. But I've moved on from it... a few times in fact.

RebelinSteel · Answer

Yes, you do, usually it’s at school, then you move into the big wide world and have to grow up. You do not forget it though.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

I was my ex’s first love, he was my first love. We both moved on.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

I did :) My suspicion: those who don't - just can't attract ''enough'' other promising 'candidates'.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

Like anything else, that's up to the individual. I've moved on from my first 5-7 or so.

MikeTheBartender · Answer

Yep... I was 18, felt like shit for two years... Nowadays when I go threw break ups I feel like shit for two days

adam6402 · Answer

Everyone can move on from their first love, but I don't think anyone would forget it.

Jersey2 · Answer

Yes, but I think about her every now and then… but not as much as I think about the Roman Empire :D

Anonymous · Answer

As much as women never move on from there first love. I like to think I leave a price of me with every woman I've ever loved. When you care about someone how do you just shut that off? I certainly don't know how.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know if I ever loved her, but the girl I have been th mosted interested in still haunts me.

SunnyRS · Answer

Never is a bit of a stretch but it takes longer to move on from your first love whether you are a man or woman.

fuddly · Answer

In a way that's true I still fancy her She never knows But i still feel something

McKellar · Answer

Short term love, maybe? Long term love,... I can't say I have.

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

We can. I wouldn’t say that it has anything to do with gender

Anonymous · Answer

Of course they do but sometimes they don’t find someone for a while to move on from

slatyb · Answer

We definitely do.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes took a long time still often think of her

Apple1996 · Answer

No men only ever fall in love once

HelpfulWoman · Answer

XD most absolutely do

smne35 · Answer

Maybe boys don't but this man certainly have

LadyKitty · Answer

I am sure they do, Just like women do too.

Katebfun · Answer

Boys? 🤣🤣 I think you mesn Men

sheikalana · Answer

They sure do.

Luméa · Answer

i think they do

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Pfff after a few encounters? She becomes obsolete

LiamJHayden · Answer

Maybe for some.

dudeinohio · Answer

I. most certainly moved on.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Of course we do.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Sure we do I sure have

Aegithalos · Answer

Depends on the men.

riverrat3 · Answer

We move on, but never forget

justabuddy · Answer

We never forget her... but we do move on.

rosemilk · Answer

yes they do

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

They do

jahaims · Answer

This isn't disney

In_Trance · Answer

Yes they do

PrettyCrumblBb · Answer

Duh.

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