Why boys moves on fast and doesn't care about the break up as much?

[Anonymous]

me and my boyfriend broke up, why does it seems like he doesn't care and doesn't get affected by it, we've been together for 4yrs. im a wreck but he is over there not caring

[aceleon]

whatis he suppoused to do? be a wreck like you? torturing himself? makinglife worst than it already is for himself? also just a guy thing but most of the times breaks up feels like a breath of fresh air, even ifthe girl we dated was good and we were happy it is still relieving sometimes.

[Asker]

how can it be a relief when you lost a girl you loved so much, im curious

[aceleon]

Easy, we Got free from the emotional burdens, expectations of any kind (emotional, financial, physical, sexual) we have no responsibility anymore, we are free to do as we please and someone ELSES program or OPİNİONS does not matter also it gives us a chance to go explore again if we are that type of guy or we want to be that kind of guy, love doesn't make negative sides of relationships good it Just males us endure them but they are still a drag we have to endure.

[Darklydarkened]

Define moving on? I'm near 32, I knew so many guys who can't get over a break up for years.

[Nikki1989]

Men use women and then discard them when they are done. How many times have you read creeps on here say she is only for “recreational use” only. It is so degrading that see females in this way.

[rosemilk]

i wouldn't say that. people have different ways of coping and also some don't even show their emotions

[HelpfulWoman]

plenty of men don't do this. stop generalising.