Does guys play hard if he text the girl everyday and then doesn’t text her to see if she initiate?

[Anonymous]

[boggboss]

Or he might have moved on why would a guy continue to put effort in with a women thats showing no effort

[Asker]

We text everyday. But he went a day without messaging me and usually message me first. It’s not that I didn’t put effort on responding. But it’s not playing hard to get… he’s just now moved on?

[boggboss]

I dono

[kingmaker21]

Yeah I initiate first then I hold my horse let's see she text me or not if she doesn't initiate I move on.

[Asker]

We text everyday. But he went a day without messaging me and usually message me first. It’s not that I didn’t put effort on responding. But it’s not playing hard to get… he’s just now moved on?

[kingmaker21]

What stopping you to text him first? Ego?

[Asker]

I felt like he was abit off the day before… or I’m overthinking it. Since it’s still new getting to know each other, I feel like I was the last to msg… and I feel like he’s just not thinking about me to no longer message me back. More so, feeling rejected and coming too strong… I feel like if he cares and wanna talk, he would contact me or reply to my last msg…. I rather give him space if he need space but wasn’t sure if he was playin hard to get if I will message him… or see if I’m clingy to do so

[kingmaker21]

You did last text? Then don't text again. Wait n watch.

[Asker]

Yep I was last to message. So, it’s not playing hard to get… or he’s just losing interest?

[kingmaker21]

Don't think too much you played your cards now his turn if he text you back then don't reply fast

[Asker]

Well what if he doesn’t message me… what’s that mean…

[Jamie05rhs]

It's not a game. We're just done: that's all.

[Asker]

We text everyday. But he went a day without messaging me and usually message me first. It’s not that I didn’t put effort on responding. But it’s not playing hard to get… he’s just now moved on?

[Jamie05rhs]

Oh- it was only one day? I wouldn't worry, then. That's not a big deal at all.

[Asker]

Is it he need time to himself or playing hard to get?
How many days of him not replying, then, I should worry?

[Jamie05rhs]

Probably neither. He was probably just busy.

"him not replying". Was there something to reply to? Did you send him a message?

[Asker]

Yep I was last to message. I’m sure he was busy and also see he’s active on social media.

[Jamie05rhs]

What was your last message to him?

[Asker]

Um it was just being happy and sayin goodnight with cute emojis 😂😂😂

[Jamie05rhs]

So you told him goodnight. That's the end of a conversation. There's nothing else to say.

[Asker]

Yep it was my last message, it’s a basic exchange of goodnight from us. He didn’t respond to say good morning or such. We usually take turn to reply.

[Jamie05rhs]

I don't think you need to worry yet at this point.

Unless there was something else that was off.

[Asker]

Well then, why didn’t he respond.. he need space; playing hard to get; or what could it be?

It did felt slightly off yesterday but I might be overthinking it.

[Jamie05rhs]

There was no need to respond. "Goodnight" is the end of the conversation.

[Jamie05rhs]

Yes, I do think you are overthinking it.

[Asker]

Well we do it everyday and he never not reply until now. So he just doesn’t have interest to continue the conversation because it’s seen as “end of the conversation”?

[Jamie05rhs]

Just because one conversation ends doesn't mean you can't make another one.

[Asker]

Yes, my question is he doesn’t have interest to carry it on then?

[Jamie05rhs]

Why is that his job?