How do I find out if he took nudes?

[Anonymous]

I'm in NC with an ex. He contacted me from a different phone number and sent me a picture of myself (face only) that he screenshotted of of a video call.

THE PROBLEM:

We did some nude calls too. I never recorded him but with this photo he sent to get me to talk to him is obviously to scare me.

How do I play this cool to find out if he A) has nudes and B) get him to erase them?

[Arush9]

I think he is not getting any hotter girlfriend like u for this moment. So maybe he wants to grab ur attention by making u scare with those nudes. N if u get scared, then he will blackmail u n give u offer to again come in relationship. So that he will enjoy with u n satisfy his lust again. But if u seriously want to knw he has more nude shooted and have stored somewher for backup. Then u should try to go in fake relationship with him again n go close with him n after getting chance check all his hard drives pendrives mobile laptop or cloud or google photos. N delete all things related u n then might be ur safe again to breakup with him. Once u get confirmed that all ur nude stuffs are destroyed by you. Then safely comeout from that fake relationship n enjoy ur life.
Sorry if u get offended by any of things I mentioned here.

[Asker]

This is whatbI want to do. I want in his phone. But he manipulation is like breathing to him and I think he is a sociopath so I will ignore for now. This option is still a possibility. 🥷

[Arush9]

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[Arush9]

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[Anonymous]

Block that clown and move on.

[Anonymous]

That is not you.

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[Asker]

Of course it isn't, Sherlock.

[laly520]

dont show him that u r scared of concerned

just play it cool n he won't see any point in harassing u

[Asker]

He is literally trying to get back with me. Why on earth would he think this is attractive?

[laly520]

he is so sick
try threatening him by saying u will call cops on him

[Asker]

This is all because his feelings got hurt and he has absolutely ZERO ability to deal with it. He is literally ill.

[laly520]

stay safe girl
record his calls n screenshot his texts for proof or for when u decide to sue him

[Asker]

Thanks!!

[Zestyassmf1997]

He probably does have them. There’s no way to get him to erase it, and to know he erased it for sure. Ultimately, though, his whole thing is just to try and scare you. I’d tell him to go fuck himself and call his bluff. What’s the worst that happens? Your nudes get posted online? Boohoo, if I got a dollar for every woman who’s seen my dick…

[Asker]

Your a man. It doesn't matter if people have nudes of you. Men don't get shamed like women.

[Zestyassmf1997]

Times have changed. I don’t think most people care either way.

[Asker]

No, it would be a problem for me. People would absolutely care.

[Zestyassmf1997]

Well at most you could get his ass after the fact. I’d really just ignore him.

[Asker]

I am going the ignore route.

[Zestyassmf1997]

A wise decision.

[boggboss]

I dont think u will be able to if u guys situation is no contact and he done this to scare you how do u think u will get him to tell the truth and then delete it

[Asker]

All I can think of now is to play into his ego, meet him and make him erase anything he has of me off his phone. I know he absolutely wants to see me.

[boggboss]

Why would he delete anything when he sees you if he knows that would let u go no contact again how do u know he hasn't saved the pics to a cloud or his computer so even if he did show u him deleting them he could still have copies

[Asker]

He's broke. He has no computer. Cloud... quite possibly. Maybe if I keep ignoring him he will Amp it up and send the nudes to me.

[boggboss]

Lol if he is going to expose your nudes nothing u do or want will stop him if anything wait for him to do it then have him arrested

[Asker]

Yes, dirty dog fleas right?

[Anonymous]

He likely has them
Only solution is to erase him permanently

I'd never take nudes this shit is why

[Asker]

No I never took nudes but I'm assuming he must have. But yeah I learned my lesson.

[Opinion Owner]

Being nude over technology... the implications are that same as is the risk of blackmail

[jahaims]

He won't erase anything and can have a backup easy if you think you seeing him delete it off his phone is all it takes then you are a fool.

[Asker]

If you think I wouldn't go into his Google photos too then you are the fool. You're also rude.

[Asker]

But really, he is just doing this so I will get back with him which is an entirely other level of twisted.