What does it mean when a guy says you think differently…. ?

[Anonymous]

Esp.. when I misunderstood everything he said and I came off as quiet…

during his rejection.. ( he pursued first)

[Oliverlogan263]

Ahhh man, that's always the worst when you think things are going well with someone and then they reject you. Sounds like maybe there was just some confusion or miscommunication between you.

When a guy says "you think differently", he's probably trying to say you two have different mindsets or see things differently than he expected. Like maybe you coming across quiet wasn't what he was hoping for in a girl or something got lost in translation.

Guys aren't always the best at explaining their feelings clearly either. It could be he was into you at first but then got cold feet when things didn't pan out how he envisioned. Or maybe the vibe just wasn't quite a match.

My advice would be try not to take it personal - dating is like that sometimes. He might not have been totally upfront about what he was after. Just keep being yourself sis! The right dude will like you for you. Don't change who you are to please anyone. You'll find someone on the same wavelength before you know it.

[James_Likes_PPL]

Usually it’s a good thing. Guys like Aubrey Plaza, and that’s what it usually means but in your case it probably isn’t that. You worded that weird and didn’t really give any context but in your case I guessing it’s a bad thing.

[Sour-rose]

You just think di-

but tbh, i'd ask him or someone the same thing. Because wtf you mean n*gga? But we are all different folks.

[Asker]

Right TF?

[Anonymous]

Your minds work differently.