Do women (and lgbtqia); men like these beta men? Or are they usually turned off by them? Why?
Anonymous(36-45)+1 yThe whole alpha vs beta male concept is getting dated and worn out now. I briefly bought into it a while ago but not anymore. People are a lot more complicated then wolves. At even that wolf theory was disproven later.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/YTyQgwVvYycAnyway this theory is really used as an excuse to bully people and/or to be conceited and self centered.
Also anyone who has to claim they are “alpha” is usually anything but from my observations. I was once friends with a woman who started a “alpha female” tshirt company. She put on this front she was a “proud girl” living her life.
But in reality she was the most selfish, flaky pos I have ever met in my life. Ironically she really cool when she was younger. I knew her for over 12 years. But when she hit 30 everything changed. She constantly ghosted guys over fickle issues. She once stood a guy up on date JUST because he called her “babe” in a text message. I read their entire conversation and that’s only thing she did wrong. If there was an “alpha” female then she would have the consideration to at least let a guy know she couldn’t make it. She eventually ghosted me but tried to reconnect 2 years later. I was pleasant at first but when she was too selfish to apologize I then called her every name in the book and told her to pound sand. This time I blocked her and good riddens.
So anyway please quit using that terminology. Because I can tell you right absolutely no man (or woman) ever wants to be called “a beta”. Ever. She’s literally telling him he’s less then a man. That’s a very deep insult.
Instead of labels just criticize actions people do. Every body is going to have their brave moments and not so brave moments. If a man is acting bitchy in a certain scenario criticize his behavior before you take a mental short cut and label him outright. Because labeling some a beta is an insult online with calling a minority/gay person a slang. Words have power especially when it’s coming from a woman to a man and he’s interested in her. Just don’t do it.
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Asker+1 ySaying grass isn’t green doesn’t make it any less true that it is green.
Opinion Owner+1 yI dare you to say that about “women” who don’t have ovaries.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yI’ve found a lot of alpha males are just bullies. I think people need to just be themselves and stop looking to others to define who they are. Some women like guys that may be “beta” and some don’t. Who cares?
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yYes I’m a straight woman, and all throughout my 20’s I’ve realized that these are real. Back then they called them “The Jocks” and “The Nerds”.
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1.2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. its just a silly theory to divide people more
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i can't talk about alpha but there is 2 types of guys
- the cool guy who at least has a way of impressing people and seduce girls and has enough self respect to not be a provider pushover.
-the guy who is a loser, doesn't even realize he is fucking his own life being the pushover, people pleaser, kiss ass nice guy, becomes an object for mainly woman to use and not even realizes what he is.
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+1 y1.6K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. I consider myself a beta male wimp, and I try to make myself appealing to a woman by offering to serve her in various ways, without any expectation of being allowed to have intercourse with her.
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Asker+1 yFair enough
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And I'm a firm believer that a submissive beta male should demonstrate his respect for the woman's boyfriends with the same degree of enthusiasm and reverence that he shows her. Women have had me do their boyfriends laundry and wash his car, go to his home and thoroughly clean it from top to bottom, and even occasionally give him a pedicure and foot massage as well. The possibilities are endless, and limited only by her creativity and capacity for cruelty and sadistic punishment.
By definition the vast majority of males and females are beta. Alpha means 1st and primary. Can't have a pack with more than 1. Say packs are 10 90% are beta. Now they throw in all kinds of other clasafications I hear. I find it silly people try to identify with a classing system used for wild animals.
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+1 yMen don’t fall into alpha and beta in my opinion. If a man regards himself as either then they likely have a mental health issue. To you the asked , how is anyone supposed to answer this about the whole world?
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I respect your opinion as it’s taken from your understanding and experience. The question was about there being lots of beta guys and as that’s about the perception of “ a beta guy “ then no me person can answer as it’s generally subjective. If a guy is known to fuck every woman in a community and that knowledge is universal then by that rationale every woman wants to fuck him because he is fucking every woman. If that makes him the alpha? Then what does that make every woman?
Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yThe alpha/beta classification is maintained by men who need a label to feel good about themselves and by women who need an excuse to think that they are really dating a first-class guy. Really mature people don't maintain this distinction.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yI couldn't tell you how many, but there are a lot of us guys who just want to serve and service women because we believe that the smartest ones are truly superior. You also have bodies that turn us on. We beta boys are meant to adore and obey the true dominant women of this world, not the wanna be brats.
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Opinion Owner+1 y@aceleon Do you realize we don't care? Do you realize you and YOUR kind are the reason the whole world is fucked up, you and you stupid masculinity throughout the eons of history?
+1 yLabeling a guy as only "alpha" or "beta" is a pretty lame oversimplification. There are billions of men in the world.
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If all the women desire one FBOY in a community. And he’s known to fuck just about every young woman in that community. He’s considered the Alpha Male by looks and desirability.
Back then they were tities “jock” & “nerd”.
The “jock” gets ass. The “nerd” never gets ass. And shouldn’t. - +1 y
@EmyyWolf There are billions of people on the planet. There're not all fathered by the one FBOY in their communities. DNA testing would reveal such patterns pretty quickly. Furthermore, the "nerds" of which you speak are often pretty cool people. Many of my friends fell into this category and they're happily married with families today.
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@EmyyWolf You seem to know a lot about my friends and what they can/can't do. Have you been using your Jump to Conclusions mat again?
+1 yThere are a lot of beta males. Do women like them? Probably for free stuff & to control them but they’ll have zero respect for them.
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+1 yWell, by definition, there must be a lot more of them. The same must be true for girls. Etas can be with alphas if they’re willing to sub, but most betas will find other betas.
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+1 yThere definitely is a severe lack of feminine women and assertive men
you don’t have to be an asshole but don’t be a doormat
Also too many women today think they are too good for an average earning man and deny many young men the right to have a family of their own because of it
providing for a woman and children is a right of passage for a young man
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yIf they like more drama in their life then maybe they should be with an alpha personality, I’m not an alpha but certainly not a wuss either so who knows what women really want, I don’t think they do either
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+1 yI guess. But I mean there’s a lotta guys in this world.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yYep a ton, and clearly through birthrates and the decline of marriage, women don't like em.
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+1 yNah beta would be giving them too much credit. There are too many omega males out there
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 ySadly, I think so. A lot of men have no idea what to do for dating and I can't blame them.
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Anonymous(18-24)+1 yDafuq, this shit again. People need to grow out of this "beta" and "alpha" garbage.
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+1 yAlpha, Beta, Sigma, etc doesn't exist.
21 ReplyAlpha vs beta guy isn’t a thing…
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yYes they all support Trump.
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+1 yNope they love the bad boys like me
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Which do you like is it bad boys or good guys be honest
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yThe more relevant question her is, are there a lot or bitter femcels on GAG? The answer, as you demonstrate here, is yes.
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Asker+1 yThere may be, but that’s not the question of the moment.
Asker+1 yBy the way you spell it as ‘here;’ not ‘her.’
Opinion Owner+1 yIt may not be your question, but it's the question everyone else here is asking.
By the way, ‘here;’ is not a word, and you should have a comma after "By the way". If you’re going to critique someone’s spelling, at least try to get your punctuation right. Otherwise, you’ll just come off as a joke, as you have here.
What a stupid question.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yAlpha, Beta?
Just stop already.
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+1 yGrow up.
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Asker+1 yAfter all, no one’s half as much of an expert on life than a twenty five year old, right? Lol
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Grow up. There’s no excuse to be a femcil. Don’t be a loser like them. I honestly don’t even think you understand what men who use the term “beta” and “alpha” actually mean when they use those terms. Being kind is not a bad thing. Shame on you. Most men who use those terms also think you’ve “hit the wall,” and aren’t of any value. You’re over 30. No excuse.
Asker+1 yYawn.
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I think you’re a guy lol. Women don’t like being considered useless anymore than men do. Women generally don’t say that about people though. I’m very sorry you’re broken.
Asker+1 yWhatever.
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I’m 26. Definitely Alpha male and Beta Males are real. Even back then they called them “the jocks” and “the nerds”.
Or women would call them “weirdos”, “dweebs” “geeks”.
IT EXISTS. Past the age of 30, is when females aren’t as fertile and they are more likely to “accept” males of low quality genetics and health sexually. Otherwise they wouldn’t.
Women are wired to only mate with the most dominant strongest male in a group. The one with higher testosterone than the average.
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If I may render my humble opinion, you will never reach an age or physical state in which you will be undesirable, because your personality more than makes up for it. If I were a billionaire, and I had a choice between marrying you at age 75, or a young Hollywood starlet, I'd choose you without a second thought, because you are utterly magnificent, ma'am.
Asker+1 y@EmyyWolf he’s feeding you a line lol
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