1. they demand the girl be a virgin when they aren't a virgin themselves
2. the demand the girl be a virgin when they are also a virgin
Thoughts on guys with these standards for women to date?
First one is just somebody who has a personality disorder. If you openly are a hypocrite like that then you are just an asshole anc you know it but don't care anyway. Entitlement at its best. Those guys are spoiled in life and think they deserve what they don't.
The second one is fair but I still personally think that if you're wanting to lose your virginity to a woman that you're in a relationship with then it shouldn't matter. Virginity and losing it isn't a big deal at all. Everybody thinks it is until after you lose it. Then you realize like when you're dating a completely different woman thag you've fallen in love with, "oh I don't even think about the person I lost my virginity to, I love my wife" that's how it always happens. People rarely rarely rarely marry the person they lose their virginity to.
It's not a big deal at all. The relationship should be about love. Sex isn't the most important thing. If it is then it will fail. You're putting too much importance on something that is going to last like 2 minutes and won't even be that good. Trust me. It's not a milestone at all.
m First one is just a hypocrite. Sadly a double standart that seems quite normalized.
Second one is in most cases ok. Weird to have the preference but I dont mind if you at least notmonly have it one sided.
Sadly some of the people in this situation are incels who just slut shame women for their inability to not have sex. Which is fucked up. Their argument is often, that its womens fault for only going for the 'badboys' while they are the 'niceguys' and can't get women. Also they want sex while every women looses value when having sex with everyohe but them... its weird and bassically just hate.
I can’t even imagine expecting a woman to be a virgin, like even the possibility of running into one, after like college age. They’re out there, I suppose, but unless I’m still in high school, I wouldn’t expect to be planting any flags in any new territory.
I can’t imagine the men demanding this stuff have any REAL LIFE experience with women, that’s just such a pie-in-the-sky attitude to come in with. Either that or they come from some hyper-religious culture I just can’t even begin to wrap my head around.
Guy #1 is for sure a clown. Guy #2…. I’d have to know more about where he’s coming from, but at least it’s not blatant hypocrisy. I still think that’s a pretty unrealistic expectation to hold.
Most guys virgin or not don't demand a virgin, they just prefer virgins.. But the answer the question, the first one is a hypocritical, unless he's honest about not being a virgin and just wants the woman to be a virgin.. Then he has contradicting philosophies I suppose.. The second one is fine.. If he's waiting I would think it's reasonable that he wanted a girl who waited as well..
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s 1. For me that's being hypocritical and I also see it as a form of sexism. Usually they demand the girl to be a virgin because they assume that a woman/girl who has sexual experience is a "slut".
2. In this case I don't see a problem, unless they believe that being with a non-virgin woman/girl is bad.
I think their standards are unrealistic. I mean, there are women/girls who never had sex and would be ok with this. But I suppose that most aren't or they wouldn't agree with these conditions.
In either case, it is his choice to try and get whatever he wants. That is not the same as getting what he wants. The woman also has a choice. Maybe she is what he wants and he is what she wants. She can lie if she is not a virgin, and she can choose to date or decline to date the guy.
Doesn't matter either way, a girl could just lie about it.
But I think it is worse when someone demands it when they themselves are not. Fair enough if they want that in a partner but if you were a hoe, and someone waited and saved themselves, you don't really deserve that person. Now if they are a virgin not by choice and just want to lose it to anyone then yeah that is the type to go for.
The demand seems unrealistic.
To be honest I had a lot of virgin guys interested in me and non virgin guys. Personally I never found virgin guys attractive, hypocritical I know considering I was a virgin. My husband was very experienced but he waited for me.
1. Those guys are big fat turds 💩
2. Those guys are good and fair
Second one I can absolutely respect.
Former is dumb as bimbos who haven't had a single job since babysitting, demand their men makes six figures and so per annum. How insane is that?
You can't hold the standard you're setting!
Everyone has a choice and option, the demand bit is wrong, they can want that circumstance but the universe is fickle and they may remain single.
I think that's fine. As long as he doesn't get mad if he gets rejected By a virgin for not being one himself.
m for first case it sounds like a selfish guy who has double standards
for second case its more understandable n its ok to have preferences
I'm the second
Tbh they're both shit second one is less shitter because at least he's not a hypocrite but still sucks
Math-challenged misogynists.
1. Retarded
2. Intelligent
I am one of those men.
2 is fine, 1 is crazy
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