Why do some men keep cheating on their girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

Why would he stay with her and keep cheating when he can just stay with the other woman he's cheating on her with? And when he does do this why do they go back to the girlfriend

[smne35]

Shouldn't you be asking? What a girlfriends. Tolerate cheating men. Men cheat because it's just no damn good anybody that cheats is no damn good. I say this because you don't care about no one's feelings. If they did they wouldn't be involved in a relationship. They remain single and let me know when he gets hurt. But he also shows the weaker side of them that cheats and they need someone to come to every night. I mean for so much temptation people lack self-control. Just cuz you can do something on when you have to. If you're in a relationship commit to it. She have to cheat. Get out of it. Be single and if you're married I don't blame you. No blame the one that cheats with you. The one that you're married, taking and still cheat with you. That's the lowest form of life. In my view. You don't mess with another man's woman with vice versa. It's plenty women out to get your own when I tell you the day that we understand the behavior of humans fully be a day the whole world will celebrate. Probably the universe as we were the most complex people species. How everywhere viewed across the universe the most complex complicated life-form we are That's what makes us unique and special. I'm going to tell you this. If anyone out there is with living with a cheater you can never end. No cheat again. I don't give a damn how much they promise you. They won't swear on 50 stacks of Bibles. Your laugh again and don't think this was the first time because I got caught. I can probably all the times they didn't get caught. So if you want to put yourself through this worry and stressing who they with when they're not with you that'll never end it's not worth it. We have to stop thinking that the one that we're with is the only one out. There is no one else like them don't. It's a lot of good people out there who have values and morals and everything. That who you're with is the only one and you can't live without them. You can never settle for less and always think highly of yourself. You catch someone cheating, leave them. You do yourself a faith. A big favor

[DARKCLOUD1945X]

Every time he cheats it is a strange piece of ass [another notch in the belt] and he goes back to his steady piece of ass that he knows will take him back. Most of the time the guys see a woman in a bad time and their bullshit defense is at a low point due to breakup death and many other problems guys' radar picks up on this and scores. Women to a lesser degree work this way. Most of the time a guy gets a whiff of a strange piece of ass looking he is hard and off and running hoping not to trip over his dick

[selfish-and-cruel]

Because they can. If every woman would cut the cheater off immediately, they would learn fast. But most women think men are allowed to hurt them as they please. And they can't be fussy. And they should be understanding and forgiving.

So men just do what they are allowed. Without thinking, of course. Because the brain uses too many resources, they could use for sex and cheating.

[smne35]

Women do same as men, cheat, only difference is they don't own up to it but attack men do viciously and constantly, if there was a poll taken honestly you will find that women cheat more than men, they are better at playing the victim than dudes that's real

[Iamherrrr]

Some people have a cheating problem. They like to create and have sex with different women because it gives them an ego boost. Some men aren't getting what they want from their girlfriend so they cheat and then some just aren't in love anymore.

[Account]

He stays with his girlfriend out of fear and also because it is hard to break some every day habits you have built with the other person.
I don't think it is out of love.
When you do not respect someone and you go behind their back, there is no way that you love them.

But then again, what the hell do I know? 🤷🏻‍♀️

[molonski2]

Stack of reasons , lets just cut to the chase , assuming he is under 30 , most guys want multiples , that's a fact , in the example you give this guy uses the girlfriend as a " backstop " , he is young , he knows she is there ( no selling required ) and he sets out to sow his wild oats , nothing to see here , happens all the time..

No biggie , he is not going to change ( at this point ) .

[Asker]

What would it take for him to change though

[molonski2]

He'd have to feel content , that he only wanted ( this ) one or the other , he is in classic " backstop " mode.

[MrMore1]

Just because we cheat it doesn't mean we like or love the other woman. We love our woman but sometimes we just need something different. You get bored after eating same dish, you get bored after same sex position. If you're skinny maybe we just want a curvy bitch, or the other way around. But that doesn't mean we necessarily like her or love her. That's why we return to our women because our heart belongs to her. And we also feel guilty (some do some don't) because we just act in the heat of the moment and lose the woman that we actually love. I also don't think it's okay to cheat but if he keeps on doing it then maybe he's a compulsive cheater and need to get away.

[MrMore1]

PS
I had a dream in which I cheated on my girl and I felt guilty, but luckily was just a dream

[smne35]

Man I wouldn't even have went there. I mean come on man. That's a poor excuse to cheat cuz you need a different flavor. Stay single man. You can have all the flavors you want. All 31 of them come on. You don't get with somebody and then cheat deliberately don't you know how much that hurts them? Think about their feelings. Selfish man. Don't do that. You want different flavors man stay single. You have all the flavors you want

[MrMore1]

Read my answer again, but slowly, really slowly

[MrMore1]

@smne35 Read my answer again, but slowly, really slowly

[hotake]

@smne35 two things
1. you can't even read properly
2. you're probably just a nerd who never had a girlfriend and just fantasizes about having one, that's why you think like this otherwise you'd know it's not that easy to stay loyal. Whether you're a man or woman after a long period you just want something different, even if it's for a short while. That doesn't mean you have to do it, but sometimes you think about it. But obviously you don't know that since YOU NEVER HAD a girlfriend or be in a relationship so do the world a favor and stop commenting if you don't have any experience on the topic

[MrMore1]

@hotake 😂😂😂 true

[Anonymous]

For many reasons. One because the girl takes him back. Especially if he’s done it numerous times. If she keeps taking him back of course he’s going to continue. Two, whether you believe it or not the dude may love you, he doesn’t live her, it’s purely sexual. So most men, unlike a lot of women can separate those feelings from sex. I’m not saying it’s right, just saying men can sleep w a girl one night, then not see her the rest of his life but he’s ok.

[EmyyWolf]

That sounds like bullshit excuse for cheating. Ima start using this. Oh I love you, but I can let other men go deep inside just for fun. 🤡
Are you re—ded

[LaurenM1997]

If he loved her he wouldn’t cheat on her

[Kaamraj]

Simple because they can, you have to understand that very few men can actually cheat because they have the high sexual mkt. value; either they're rich, good looking, have came or a combination of all three. It's upto women not to associate with such men.

[iiamvellem]

i can call it “not cheating’ depending on how he’s been treated by her girlfriend!!! because i feel like i’m not getting enough of you as time goes on i look for that in someone else and these days if i find out my girlfriend is sneaking behind my back i will also start doing the same thats all so its 50/50

[ManOnFire]

Because they know their girlfriends keep forgiving him, keep tolerating it, and keep staying. Probably in the foolish hopes that "he'll change."

[PeachyPie93]

Because only certain woman are stupid enough to stay with a cheater. He doesn't love her but he is also scared to be alone. He needs someone to always love him but be free to do whatever he wants.

[smne35]

That's not from experience. Is it what you say? Hope not. You sound like you still kind of bitter once a cheater always a cheater. Catch him once you better cut him loose. Just cut him loose and he ain't going to be no. Damn good. You ain't going to be good either. That's why I never worry about no woman cuz people going to do what the hell they going to do. Anyway you know just go through my days when I was with my ex and ain't giving no reason to but why am I going through all this I hope you're over it cuz it ain't worth it. You know hanging on to yesterday past. Let it go

[PeachyPie93]

@smne35 Nah, I haven't technically been cheated on by anyone. It's just I know people who cheat.

[smne35]

Don't we all and they the cheater, wonder why at Christmas they have to sing, all I want for x mass is your forgiveness and I promise not to cheat can I please come in get warm and have a plate of dinner to eat lol, and the whole neighborhood heard him just before he was served his divorce papers😅😆

[ProbablyClueless]

Because he can. He's scared of being alone, and he knows he can get away with cheating on her.

[Radiate143]

He's doing him and will deal with whomever will tolerate him. That's all. Like a dog. He goes here there and everywhere. A lot of men have pain and problems but that has nothing to do with cheating. He just wants to.

[whistlingwh0res]

It’s the game that they play. All men are mindless and have nothing but their body. That’s why they steal, mimic, cheat, lie. They are like mayfly that lives one day to spread their sperm to female and swamp to the body looks like a woman and die in one day. There is nothing you can trust on them but their ability to swamp and all die

[Soapwithsoap]

"all men.."
If someone says same for females it doesn't end well.
Keep your hate for yourself if you feel superior.

[whistlingwh0res]

@Soapwithsoap whatever

[Foreverurs54]

Some men just can't seem to be with just one woman and become real sex addicts and no matter how much sex , dick sucks or ass your giving him he's never going to be satisfied with just you but he's too afraid to tell you because he's afraid you were leaving him

[Flatmanlewis]

Because cheaters aren’t cheating in order to find a healthy relationship. They cheat for the thrill of the cheating.

[SolitarySolace]

Why do more women keep cheating on their boyfriends? Every relationship I've been in I've been cheated on. Every single one to the point I just don't trust women at all.

[FunkyMonkee]

Why do some women keep cheating on their boyfriends?

[serious]

It is because they don't have loyalty in them. They have always been cheater.

[Paris13]

Some, Hun, Want Their Cake and Take----It Two. xxoo

[ODC2112]

Simply because you women are more likely to go to bed with a man from another woman than with a single man, if this were not the case, cheating would be scarce.

[LaurenM1997]

My question is why does she keep going back if he’s cheating?

[OtterMan68]

Because she keeps taking him back.

He's having the best of both worlds: playing the field and having a steady