How do you emotionally detach like a man? I want tips on how not to be attached quickly to guys and how to be able to move on quickly?

[Tinana]

[Telekinetic-Potato]

It's OK to appreciate someone for who they are, but when you start to get turned on, just pause for a moment and ask yourself "why do i have a boner-" I'm sorry I guess for you it would be "why are my nipples so hard right now" and if you take a deep breath and relax your mind, you'll realize, you just got turned on because of something that was no reason to get attached.

I think what happens to men and woman is that we get sexually attracted to how people make us feel and then our brains associate the two, eventually mistaking lust for love.

You can practice this through the day, anytime you feel your emotions becoming stronger just ask yourself what specifically is making you so emotional and question whether or not it's for a good reason.

When you understand your emotions, you can control them and use them to your benefit instead of having them steer you and take control of your decisions.

[ArcticMonarch]

Usually if I like someone and they don’t like me back I turn and focus back on myself. Look and think am I the partner I want my future wife to have? Am I the dad my future children deserve? If the answer is no I look at what I can do to change that and strive to be better. Make myself more valuable and increase my worth. Usually focusing on myself helps get over quickly because it gives my mind to focus on something else. Essentially I turn my time and energy into motivation for self improvement and shift my focus back on myself before trying for love again.

[Nikki1989]

It is really not hard. Just remember you are more important than any man and men are so easy to find, so often date but choose wisely.

[Tharithi]

Remember men aren’t loyal but opportunistic pigs

[guywholikestoeatout]

Must suck to be so unhappy that you have to carry around such animosity, as if women aren’t equally disloyal and opportunistic.

[Tharithi]

@guywholikestoeatout nahhh they aren’t

[guywholikestoeatout]

Keep telling yourself that, maybe one day you’ll actually believe it.

[guywholikestoeatout]

Unfortunately for women being attached quickly came free with your biology, so I don't know if there necessarily can negate that. But moving on fast? That’s some weird myth that guys just “move on fast”, if a man has moved on fast, it’s cause he didn’t have a strong attachment to you. Just like when women move on fast. There’s no secret to that. But if a guy was truly attached to you they do NOT move on fast.

[Bklynbadboy12]

I can give you tips but it won't work. You can only be what you are. But I will give you a major tip on how not to get hurt. TAKE IT SLOW!!! Move at your own pace and don't let anybody rush you. Your trust should be earned never given understand

[Tinana]

I love this so much 🥺 thank you

[Bklynbadboy12]

Your so welcome im glad I could help beautiful

[RavVid]

It might not be in your female make up. Who said you should be like a man?

[Tinana]

I understand I’ll still want to know some tips

[RavVid]

I get that but evolutionary bio ethics might not have caught up with contraceptives. Just saying.

[Snakeyes7]

The only way you can emotionally detach quickly is if you never got so attached in the first place.

[Anonymous]

You just have to get rejected by enough women to the point you become numb to it and dead inside in regards to feelings. Then you are ready young Padawan.

[Anonymous]

You’re not a man. You won’t be able to do that. This is why women aren’t meant to sleep around. The best argument why. You will be attached to him whether you like it or not.