How to not be emotionally attached to men?

[Anonymous]

I want to be able to date without getting emotionally attached so early on in case it doesn’t work out. Any advice?

[Bright_blue_eyes]

Your habit of getting emotionally attached is very much a personality trait, but the good news is you can change it. I do have some advice. 1. Make a solid non-flexable decision in your mind, not to get attached. Once you've made that absolute & definitive decision you should just stick to and protect that decision emotionally. Think of it like this... make your decision the priority rather than your emotions. My other advice might sound odd, but I promise it works. Make a commitment to work on yourself. Make yourself awesome, and you are far less likely to get attached to someone. Do this. Start a workout program. That regular exercise will boost your self-esteem, and in a odd or magic way, you will feel amazing and your self-worth will not be dependent on the person you're dating which will help your emotional attachment.

[The_Maphio]

I'm sure that you'll find a way sooner or later. And another boyfriend too, since you're going to lose the actual one.

[Asker]

Thank you for the useless comment🙃 plus there’s no boyfriend

[The_Maphio]

Good thing, if that's how you're gonna live a couple's life, there are not gonna be any at all.

[Asker]

Yeah I get what your saying now, been hurt too many times, not really interested in having a relationship anymore I guess

[The_Maphio]

There's the right dude for every woman out there. Well, more than one really.
Take a break if you're sick and tired of how lady luck has been treating you, but get back on the breach as soon as you gathered yourself fully.

[Asker]

That’s a good idea :)

[The_Maphio]

You having been able to gather the concept I was trying to convey through a no BS kind of approach demonstrates that you're smarter than the average lady these days throw at us. You'll find a good partner soon enough. I'm rooting for you.

[Asker]

Aww thank you❤️

[boggboss]

Tackle overthinking dont plan out whats going to happen or overthing situations