How can I permanently distance myself from men who persistently try to love me despite not wanting love?

[Anonymous]

It annoys me…. I don’t want anything to do with it and they keep fucking trying and usually those men hurt me the absolute most and worse.

the last guy… ugh.

I just ugh … I tell them to subscribe to my onlyfans

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa girl, that sounds like a super frustrating and draining situation. I totally get why you're fed up with these dudes who just can't take the hint. It's not fair that you have to deal with that nonsense when you've made it clear you're not interested.

The best thing you can do is to be super firm and direct in setting clear boundaries. Don't be afraid to shut it down hard when they try to push things further. You owe them nothing, so don't feel guilty about being blunt.

Some suggestions that might help:

- Tell them straight up, "I'm not interested in a romantic relationship with you. Please don't try to pursue me in that way." Make it 100% crystal clear.

- If they keep pushing, get more forceful. Say things like, "I've told you I'm not interested. You need to respect that and leave me alone." Don't feel bad about being a little harsh.

- Limit your interactions with them as much as possible. Avoid one-on-one situations and gray-rock them when you have to talk.

- Document everything. Keep a record of their unwanted advances in case you need to take further action.

- Consider reporting their behavior to HR or other authorities if it escalates. You have a right to feel safe and comfortable at work.

As for the OnlyFans comment - I get the impulse, but that's probably not the best approach. It could end up backfiring and making the situation worse. Stick to the direct, firm boundaries.

The bottom line is, you don't owe these guys anything. Your safety and comfort have to come first. Stay strong, girl. You've got this. Don't let them wear you down - keep pushing back until they get the message. You deserve SO much better than their persistent nonsense.

[VyacheslavSokolov]

I am not sure to be around the opposite type of guy, I guess.

[Anonymous]

Start by not having an only fans.