Is it true that guys prefer arrogant, hard to get girls over soft, naive and easy going girls?

[Biya123]

[Yannae]

I can say yes to some things and no to others.

Arrogant women: rude women are not attractive and it's tiring. Life is already short, I'm going to spend it being as happy as I can be. There is no room for arrogance.

Hard to get. If she needs time to grow on me, that is okay, my girlfriend was like this. If you distance yourself for the sake of being hard to get, you are playing games and it'll be a hard 'No'. People who are contradicting themselves in action and intent are not worth my time. My girlfriend was hard to get, but she did let me know she liked me, went out of her way to spend time with me. It just took a while to get official.

Soft. Maybe, it's okay if you're soft, a kind heart, emotional. But I don't prefer women who are soft in a bad way like giving up, not being able to handle criticism, small things pissing you off. It's normal that you can get overwhelmed every once in a while, that is fine. But not all the time.

Naive. No. ... I prefer a woman who is confident, calculated, very aware, conscious and considerate of her surroundings and what she does.

Easy going girls. Best girls. Easy going is what we guys want. Easy going as in getting along with us, a relationship is team work. We NEED that, not just us, but you ladies as well. Easy as in catching feelings quickly? It can be a turn off if she wants me to be her boyfriend when I don't really know her yet. I want to know who I am dealing with. Even if I like you, does not mean that I want to get in a relationship As Soon As Possible to chase that happy butterfly feeling. I want to get a glimpse of you beyond the butterfly phase.

[Lionman95]

No I think it´s a rather trap many guys fall in since those girls have due to an openly shown self confidence easier to attract guys. So guys follow them and make it seem like they prefer them.
The problem is rather while many guys look for an easy going girl they have a hard time figuring out whether the interest of that girl is mutual or not. So guys go for the girls that show off self confidence and arrogance since guys want to be seen as the leader and as strong and the characteristics of those girls are therefore similar. But it takes time for guys to figure out that they actually don´t want those girls.

[PeachyPie93]

I think that is true considering my older sister in high school was the "hot girl". She was an absolute bitch to everyone and would get in fights regularly. And every guy and his father wanted her she went through at least 100 guys that I seen come to my house and make out with her. She did marry her high school sweetheart tho so that was good. But me, I am easy going and friendly and I can barely get a guy, lol guys like hot bitches. That's why I always respected guys way more when they didn't like my girls like my sister.

[naartjie]

No. Men get it hard form society already.
They do not need a girl to make their lives harder.
A mans woman is meant to be his safe place. Where he feels calm, happy, cared for.
Imagine having a hard day, a hard week or just a hard life and here comes a woman who wants to make it harder. Don’t be easy, a whore but don’t make his life harder.

[Anonymous]

No LMAO. some guys do yewh. But they aren’t the type of guys you would want anyways.


I personally don’t like arrogance. Also if a woman isn’t showing interest I will assume she isn’t interested in me and move on.


At the same time. There is a balance. I don’t want someone whose too passive and won’t communicate when they need something or are upset with something. I like women who are able to stand up for themselves and have courage.


Not that I wouldn’t defend her on a situation that called for it. But also don’t want someone who causes problems and hides behind me

[BoopBoopBeep]

No I'm not doing hard to get. Either you want to be with me or you don't. If you don't there are 4 billion other women out there, I'll find one who does. I'm certainly not going to play games.

That said, naivete isn't exactly a plus either...

[bobby_bush_eater]

No. I think unfortunately in many instances though guys are more attracted to those girls. The idea "I can break through that because I'm so great" type ideology. Those girls tend to stick out more. In reality though most men do not prefer that

[Biya123]

I saw men took you forgranted and put you as an option if you are easy one.

[Cody2004]

I don't like a naive I like someone who's like at least self-aware and aware of stuff around here so that way she can't get tricked. Just somebody who's chill I guess

[chriss]

Some do and some don’t it all depends on the individual and their preference but most don’t but there is a few that do

[DextroShade]

That is 100% untrue, men prefer feminine, submissive women. The girls you're describing are recreational use only and that's only if they are attractive.

[Biya123]

I saw men took you forgranted and put you as an option if you are easy one.

[DextroShade]

There is a difference between easy going and easy.

[Berethor]

If naive means virgin then no, guys tend to prefer virgins over non-virgins.

[Apple1996]

I'm not sure if they prefer it but a lot of men do pass up/ignore the easy going women

[Sharkstealth]

I'm attracted to girls that I think are cute that show some interest in me.

[Drew-1990]

Not true at all. Soft and easy going girls are the way to go.

[aceleon]

biggest lie, what delusional idiot said this to you.

[MrZameer]

I don't think so.
Boys likes/prefer friendly, soft spoken and funny girls

[MrZameer]

You inactive your account?

[bowenw]

It is not true for me. I prefer a smart but easy-going girl.

[LiamJHayden]

Not necessarily, but I do prefer a girl who isn't afraid to challenges me when I'm being a dolt.

[Billlewis]

Oh my goodness yes!

[CozyCoffin]

Nope. I'll take the second one.

[shortster]

I like easy going women

[PrincessFlora]

Not true in my experience

[WhiteBoyChill]

Very much the opposite

[ChicoFromThe305]

Not personally no