He called me first after I unblocked him. Is it a good or bad sign. (SEE DESCRIPTION)?

[Anonymous]

We had a fight about social media. I was really mad and I didn't want to say things I would regret. He was calling me but I decided to block him for a bit to cool down. I unblocked him and planned to reach out but he called me first.

We have a a lot of power struggles and I want to avoid turning into his mother.

I was shocked to see he called me first but I don't know if it's a good or bad sign. Could it be manipulation?

[Anonymous]

Sounds like a bad sign that two incompatible people keep trying to force compatibility. Your personalities and beliefs are what will make you two clash again and again and again. That sounds like a big fat headache I wouldn’t want or settle for.

[Asker]

Our personalities don't clash at all. I think that's what the pull is. It's our habits and lifestyles.

[Opinion Owner]

I’m not sure why I didn’t get notified you responded lol sorry about the 22 hours. Anyway, incompatibility pertains to more than just your personalities, but your beliefs, morals, and standards. You can have great chemistry with a guy and be good on every other level yet there’s the one (or more) things you can’t find a middle ground on, stand firmly in your beliefs about, and because of this, you’ll be constantly butting heads. To me, that’s far too much work and quite exhausting. It’s ok to not agree, you won’t be on the same page about everything, it’s the nature of those topics and how important that they are to you which matter most.

[Asker]

Oh don't worry about that! Yes, this is all true.