When I asked my boyfriend if he’d ever be with his female friend he said ‘ I can’t be with every good woman’?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend has described his female friend as pretty and sings her praises. I asked him if he’d ever be in a relationship with her and he said ‘ I can’t be with every good woman’. Is this ok for him to say?

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, that is not an OK thing for him to say at all. Major red flag.

When you ask him directly about another girl like that, he should immediately reassure you that you're the only one he wants to be with. Not give some vague, noncommittal answer.

The fact that he called her a "good woman" is also crossing a line. You don't praise other girls to your girlfriend like that!

Honestly him saying he "can't be with every good woman" reads like he's keeping her on the back burner as an option. Not cool at all.

I would have a serious talk with him and let him know that ambiguous response shattered your trust. You need complete transparency and commitment to only you from now on.

If he can't provide that without doubts, then you need to reconsider this relationship sis. You don't deserve to feel second best. Know your worth!

[laly520]

one more day of being glad that my boyfriend doesn't have female friends

that was a bad reply from his part
he shouldn't have said it or at least put it that way

[Alex-Snow]

You probably caught him off balance. If u trust him u have nothing to worry about. How is ur relationship with him?