Do men seriously not like women in their age group?

[Anonymous]

My age is 24 but i was fat. I was never able to date because of it. I have lost 17 kg and i am 59 kg now. I think I still need to lose 5 or 6 kg to be cute. But on internet I keep hearing that women hit wall at 25 . I am gonna be 25 at July. so is it seriously over for me even after losing so much weight? Men my age are just gonna go for younger women?

I don't want to date old guys. Because I don't relate with them.

What is the point of losing weight if I am gonna die alone?

Maybe I would die virgin. I don't want to have sex unless it is in long term relationship. Because I personally don't think that I would enjoy.

I prefer women around my age

I prefer older women

I prefer younger women

[D_Bone_Steak]

Women usually hit the wall around 35 to 45 years of age... it depends on their lifestyle when that fall from grace is. Since you're only 25 you still have time. My wife of 20 years was your age when I met her.

You are being smart by losing some weight. I can't really understand your weight because I go by Lbs. and not Kg. and I'm too lazy to look it up. But just like "the wall" comes from the manosphere, so too does the philosophy that women are born with everything they need and all they need to do is not fuck it up... basically don't get fat and look like you've taken a bath. Your time hasn't run out and there probably isn't a good reason you need to look like a corn-fed porky fatty that giggles everywhere when you waddle about.

I mean think about it... you can still get all the dick you can eat even at 45 if you're not fat. Don't let the fatty women convince you otherwise because they view you as competition and want to bring you down beneath themselves. I know you've probably heard their bullshit propaganda like "Gurl, if he don't like you fat then he don't deserve you." I mean what in the living fuck is even that? So restrict yourself to chubby chasers or dudes that are too scrawny to even get a normal woman? Fuck that shit am I right? I mean every chubby chaser I've seen looks like a hot mess straight from a dog's ass.

You should want the best you can get for yourself and you still have time to get there and make it happen. That's why you should keep trying. Get a guy that can actually get a hot chick... or at least a guy that will feel lucky to have gotten you. I'm telling you straight up though, if you listen to other women and their bullshit, they'll bring you further from your goal than get you there.

[Anonymous]

My issue is I have encountered women close to my own age who haven’t grown the f up on things. Some of them literally think they feel younger if they act like a pain in the ass.

A few years ago I had an incident with a grown ass woman a year older then me who seriously thought I would be okay with the friendzone. That infuriated me. She really thought I was that naive and stupid. She played dumb and acted flaky. A grown ass woman should know better. Its bad enough when women did this to me in my early 20s but a 38 year old woman doing this?

Anyway I know I am held to a higher standard then I was at 24 (as I should be). I am not against dating woman closer to my age. But they better not play games. When a grown woman close to my age acts flaky, disrespectful or immature I get pissed. I’ve had 3 different incidents with this with women in their 30s in last few years.

They seem to feel justified taking their crap out on me because of bad past experiences with other men. That’s why I usually stick with younger women. You can accuse me doing that because of their looks. But many of them are more open minded.

[handsomelad70]

Why would a golden boy such as I want some old broad? (I mean, I'm 70, but look 40.) Most 70-year-old women would look like my grandmother, though we're the same age.)

[Anonymous]

Ha no. When I hit my 30s I was at university doing a teaching qualification. That’s when it started. The cute little 22 year old physical fitness guys would hunt me down and walk me to my car. I was confused and just thought they were friendly. Then one of them had their parents add me on socials too as he’d spoken about me so much at home. I was so confused by it as these guys were really cute and nice.


I am now with a guy 10 years younger than me and have been for a few years. It just works and he treats me like a queen. It is hard as he has lot of 20 something year olds coming at him. However when I look at them they don’t have much about them. They are mentally under developed most of the time (specially the ones that throw themselves at him)

[Kelley1]

For most of human history a woman's attractiveness and desirability peaked at ages 14 to 16 and went downhill after age 18. In modern society a woman's attractiveness and desirability peaks at ages 18 to 20 and starts going downhill after age 22. However, very slowly until age 25 to 27 after which the decline is more rapid.

Based on modern standards, your basic beauty has not declined much. Moreover, men must settle for who they can get. Therefore, your opportunities are very good for the next couple years. You just need to realize if your standards are a 7 or above and if you are a 5, then you have priced yourself out of the marriage, but not the dating, market.

[Nefertity112]

This is total bullshit. I glowed up at 23 and still glowing up. And most people I know don’t change that much from 20 to 30, unless they have really unhealthy lifestyles.

[Kelley1]

@Nefertity112 You are welcome to your opinion but the evidence proves otherwise. That is not to say, that you are not an exception but, if you are, soon you will start showing your age.

[Nefertity112]

I've only getting hotter. My curves are getting bigger. Face fuller. Style better.
Something tells me you’re a bitter MAN hiding behind a pink account.

[Asker]

I personally would rather want a guy who prefer me.
I have dark eyes. So I want a guy who prefer dark eyes.

That's how I feel about age. It is worse with age because everyone age

[BullShark]

That is not true at all. As someone who's also 24, I'd much rather also date someone who's around the same age group as me i. e we're either the same exact age, or a year or two more or less, but nothing more, because more than attraction and sex, there's need to be some chemistry between us and we need to relate to one another as well.

That being said, yes, there are in fact other guys out there who do in fact prefer women who are wayy younger than them. I don't know if it's their personal preferences, or if they like to be in a more dominant and controlling position when they're around them because of the huge age difference (not even joking there are some dudes who actually get turned on by this).

But yeah. I wouldn't say you need to change anything about you for anyone as of right now. And I know you might've heard this a million times already, but the truth is, if you really do want your ideal man, your best chances are that you'll have to continue looking until you find them eventually.

There are plenty of guys out there who prefer dating girls their age, so trust me, you'll find one yourself.

[tremendousfern]

Have you seen 30+ year old women lately?

Here's your new girlfriend: Completely drugged up on anti-depressents, anti-anxiety meds, and birth control. She's a cat/dog mom. She's an obese blue-haired feminist. She's got the 1000 cock stare from over a decade of "finding herself" and she's loaded down with baggage from a half-dozen failed relationships. And the cherry on top is her borderline personality disorder that makes her randomly act like a psychotic bitch because she dreamt about you cheating on her.

No thanks. I'd rather die alone than ever consider a relationship with one of these life-ruining maniacs.

[Asker]

Younger women are more likely to be leftist through. If you like conservative women you would have better success in older generation

[Asker]

Any women in my family is not like that. You are describing worst scenario

[tremendousfern]

True, young women are more likely to be leftist, but they are less likely to have been corrupted by those values than older women simply by virtue of holding those views for less time.

And you're telling me the women in your family who are 30+ and single are all physically fit virgins with no personality disorders? I seriously doubt that, otherwise they wouldn't be 30+ and single. I guarantee they've had sex with several men, are out of shape, and are medicated for something if they've remained single for that long.

[Asker]

If a guy in single at 34. then probably something is wrong with him too by that logic

Like I said women can be single in 30s and not have anything wrong with her. maybe her long term boyfriend turned abusive and started beating. Maybe he cheated.

Dude I come from very different culture. We don't have sex before marriage.

Women in my family who are single in 30s are because they were not able to find right men.

And yes they're skinny

[Asker]

And yes they're cool

[tremendousfern]

Well they're the exception and not the rule then. The majority of women who are 30+ have some serious issues.

[Asker]

Same goes for men then lol
They are also single for a reason

Or for some weird reason it don't apply to mens. Explain me why it don't?

[tremendousfern]

I'm sure this will all fall on deaf ears, but here goes: Women generally prefer men to be older than them and to make more money than them - both of those take time to happen. Also, women have vastly unrealistic standards for men. This is regularly born out in surveys of people's expectations for their potential partner's income, height, fitness level, attractiveness, sociability, etc. Women only want to date the top 1% of men.

[Asker]

Women according to most statistics. Only prefer slightly older 2 or 3 . They don't want someone who is 10 year older lol.

Most women are okay with same amount of money. At least in my family.

He is probably not in 1% if he is single or he would have been married at 30 lol.
He is probably bald have erectile dysfunction. And is fat.

[tremendousfern]

I almost forgot. The biggest reason it doesn't apply to men is because women are the gatekeepers of relationships. Men chase, women pick.
So if a woman is single at 30+ it's because she rejected all of the thousands (yes thousands, I've seen the responses women get on dating apps) of men who have tried to date her during her twenties. She's got nobody to blame but herself.

[Asker]

Men's standard are realistic? People age. People height don't change. At least not drastically.

Preferring younger women is worse than preferring tall men.

Men are themselves shallow. They don't want to date girls who they think is ugly

[tremendousfern]

So we agree on women preferring older men. And sure, women might be "okay" with men making the same amount of money, but the majority prefer that he makes more or even is the sole bread winner. You don't have to take anything I'm saying at face value. Multiple statistics back up my words.

And your last part just reinforces my point. Women want a man who is six foot+, makes six figures, has a six pack, etc. Women won't date guys who aren't a 10/10, even if they themselves are a 5 or a 6. Do you really expect that 99% of women are somehow going to get in a relationship with 1% of men?
Women need to lower their expectations.

[Asker]

@tremendousfern like I said I was fat so I was never able to date before lol. I didn't had thousands of mens

I am gonna enter this relationship after losing weight. Because men only like cute girls.

Most of those men approach because they only want to get laid and I have 0 interest in getting laid. They want to only seriously date cute girls.

And you don't know how much men lie.

A men can fake his intention of being in long term relationship. And I have seen men turning abusive after years of relationship. So should women stay with men who beat her?

Also why would it be wrong for women to want guys who is on her level look wise? How many men would marry ugly women.

I literally have seen men hating on gorgeous woman for only going for good looking dude. And ugly guys can also be abusive.

I personally don't want to marry a ugly dude because it mean ugly daughter. And life as a ugly women is very very hard. Men bully you.
And you also need to be attracted to your partner

Men standard are extremely extremely high but they expect women to have no standard?

And that is unrealistic?

[Asker]

@tremendousfern. I know you are talking about significant age gap. Because I consider someone who is 3 year older than me in my age group

And I disagree that women like significantly older.

Look at most developed countries. Age gap is small like 2 to 3 but in African countries it is big because men buy women there

most young woman work. Women prefer this when they're stay at home mom. Because someone need to earn
Listen in my family it is not uncommon for men and women to earn same amount of money. My mom earn slightly more than my dad even though he is 6 year older.

My aunt husband is 3 year older. Despite this. There salary is similar. He used to earn less when he was her age.

I hope you know that older people also retire. Basically if a woman is dating someone who is 10 year older then after for 10 year she would be sole bread winner. What is the point?

Not only that you would need to take care of them since older people are more likely to get ill. meaning spending your best year in this lol

And erectile dysfunction

[tremendousfern]

None of what I'm saying is a personal attack on you. I think it's a really good thing that you lost weight. I hope you also did it for yourself and not just to look more attractive to men. 59kg is a pretty normal weight so I doubt you need to lose more unless you're super short. If you're healthy and happy that's what matters. It's also a good thing that you want to save sex for marriage.

I'm also well aware that many men are shitty people too. Abusive relationships and men who are simps or loser incels have nothing to do with what I'm saying though. Nobody wants to date an abusive loser. I'm talking about women's unrealistic standards for how they want men to be outside of those things.

[Asker]

@tremendousfern most women are okay with dating in their looks group. Really
I have seen ugly men who only want cutest girl. That's what most incel want

As for height thing. Men are significantly taller than women. Men are on average 5 inch taller than women

Only very few women want 6 feet and most of them are themselves tall

Most women would be okay with a men being taller than them. When they wear heels. Which is enough if a men is 5 or 6 inch taller.

I personally am okay with same height guy. I just would need to stop wearing heels. Since women taller than her men look weird

[tremendousfern]

You need to stop doing the feminine thing where you take all of the stuff I say as if I'm speaking about you personally. I'm talking about other women in general. Women - in general - have unrealistic expectations for a man's income, height, attractiveness, fitness, etc. There are many articles and surveys that talk about this phenomenon.

[Asker]

Are men expectations realistic. You know in many culture dark skinned men don't want dark skin women

How is this realistic?

I personally am light skin but have observed it myself.

As for fitness and attractiveness. Men definitely are very shallow

[tremendousfern]

Like I thought, everything I said is falling on deaf ears. When I point out any problems with women, all you do is jam your fingers in your ears and say "But what about men?"
It really goes to show just how incapable women are of owning up to their own problems and mistakes or acknowledging the shitty behavior of other women. Thanks for teaching me a valuable lesson about not wasting my time with clueless women.

[sawno]

25 is still fine, no worries there. The perceived fertility barrier is 35 and men don't like to have to rush a relationship. So they do prefer dating younger than their own age and the more men find a suitable partner, the less men are still available unless one of those relationships fail. In practise that means girls have the largest dating pool in their 20's, so you still have a lot of room to get a really nice guy. But mid 30's your options become a lot smaller, and then your dating in the dating pool of failed relationships.

[Asker]

I mean men scientifically also lose fertility through. My aunt had daughter in her late 40s

[Asker]

Not everyone want kids these days lol

[demonics]

In their 50's sure... Your *insert person I know* is called an anecdote.

"I know a guy who fell out of an airplane with no parachute and survived... wanna try it out?"

And since your body is the one manufacturing the child, its more important that YOUR factory be in tip top shape. Birth defects, autism, still births, etc skyrocket after 35.

Who wants to be 60 at their childs graduation?

[sawno]

I'd also like to add the facts don't even matter on this, my argument is based on general sentiment I hear. If the majority thinks 35 matters for women their decisions will be based around that, which means I have to take it into account when giving girls dating advice.

[Asker]

@demonics https://youtu.be/hiQ99u_0veY?si=BpIrG5OF9SC8U8ur

Real life example of women having kids in 50s

Why would I lie? Women can have kids later

Like I said. According to studies older men kids are more likely to be autistic. They also produce less sperm. So they are less likely to make a women pregnant.

Seriously read about it.

I mean these days many people have kids late. I know women in my family who had kids in 40s so it is not uncommon to be 60 at child graduation.

Like I said not everyone want kids. Some women in my family have 0 kids and they are married

[D_Bone_Steak]

@demonics "In their 50's sure... Your *insert person I know* is called an anecdote.

"I know a guy who fell out of an airplane with no parachute and survived... wanna try it out?""

... I just gotta say I absolutely admire that rebuttal.

I run into those arguments all the time. "I don't do that, so therefore, wrong" or "I know a person that's not like that, so therefore, wrong" types of arguements. I'm not sure if I should call it the no true Scotsman fallacy or "whataboutism" or what?

... I know I'm not alone either because I see other people's questions when they're obviously speaking in generalities, have to preface with the disclaimer that they're not saying all ____, but rather just who they're talking about.

[Asker]

@D_Bone_Steak https://youtu.be/hiQ99u_0veY?si=alWzIHUmWELrVetT

Video if you don't believe me. She was able to get pregnant in her 50s

[D_Bone_Steak]

We believe you, but an exception to the rule does not make the rule. Your example (Pregnant at 56) is about as rare as a trans man getting pregnant. Yeah, it can happen once in a great while...

But are you really going to base your life and decisions off of some rare occurrence? Might as well blow all your money, because sometimes people win the lottery with that logic.

[Asker]

@D_Bone_Steak maybe you are saying it because it is rare where you live

But medicine have advanced a lot. I don't know about 50s since no one in my family have tried it but having kids at 40 is very easy these days lol
You should seriously talk to doctor about it if you don't believe me. Ivy treatment are great now

I don't have any experience with trans men so won't talk about it.

[Asker]

@d_bone_steak ivf not ivy treatment. are amazing
And this tech is only gonna improve

You can also freeze eggs if you are too worried

You know what scientists are even working on artificial womb. When it happen then with the help of freezed egg
Even women in her 70s would be able to have biological kids

[Lynx122]

My girlfriend was 2 months younger than me. I think there are a lot more things to consider than looks. For me it was that we were both autistic and we understood each other well and we have good communication most of the time. In general men will prefer younger women when it comes to physical attractiveness but there are a lot of things that can be more important than looks. From your post I feel like you're stressed out you seem a bit insecure. So try and find some stability mentally so when something goes wrong you don't lose composure too quickly. Just think positively and keep working out :)

[HawkPerception]

I'm 30 and currently I find that girls that are in their early 20s are more fun, care less about finances, have more of an open mind, less baggage and emotional trauma, less of an emotional wall up, and more adventurous. Women around my age have usually figured their life out, already done all the traveling they wanted to, and are looking more for a man that has everything also figured out. They also tend to be overweight due to laziness and lack of discipline with diet and exercise.

I'm not closed to the idea of dating a girl my age, but they should have similarities in terms of interests, views, the way we think, sexual compatibility, sense of humor, where we wanna be in 20 years should align, style of communicating, etc. and to be honest, I find that rare in most girls, but even more so around women my age and up.

[WindAtMyBack]

"on internet I keep hearing that women hit wall at 25"

Stop listening to that nonsense. Idiots on the Internet say all kinds of things. This wall thing comes up here at GaG fairly often. Only a small number of guys buy into that nonsense. Most have more sense.

[demonics]

*the men I don't want dismiss that "nonsense"

Fixed that for you.

[Kykiono1]

You seem butthurt lol

[Pohjolan]

Firstly the good news. A lot of guys go for younger/non-western women nowadays because they have a lower body count.

And you can't go below 0.

Moreover you should be living healthy for your own sake.

Being attractive to guys is just a byproduct.

Bad news that it seems that you had less than ideal diet during your childhood?

The effects that has on ones bone structure won't change as much as body weight.

Also what have you actually done to to attract a mate apart from losing one deal breaker?

[Nefertity112]

How does that affect bone structure?

[Pohjolan]

@Nefertity112
There's multiple factors but for one you are chewing less if you eat more mushy foods.

[4ngelic]

it's only teens or incels saying women hit the wall at 25 (though even most incels say it's 30 not 25) as long as your in your 20s you got nothing to worry about. stuff only starts to get a bit more problematic in your 30s particularely when you're approaching 40. so your still good, dont stress it. mid 20s is still super sexy to the vast majority of dudes

[Asker]

Lol I am sure I am gonna find husband at 25. especially since I have no dating experience.

[Asker]

Jokes aside it might take some years before it happen. That's why I am worried

[4ngelic]

ohh ok

[RavVid]

I think men do prefer younger women - generally both guys and girls like a 2 to 3 year age gap so that is standard. 5 years is common. 10+ years are 10% of marriages

I don't agree that you hit the wall at 25 yo. What age gap would you prefer?

[Asker]

Well 2 year below or 2 year above my age? Probably would be ideal? Ideally not more than 5 year older

[Kykiono1]

Sex wise lot of people like partners much older

[RavVid]

Yeah 2 to 5 years is ideal I think. Have you heard the saying 'Better and older mans darling than a young mans fool'. Men improve with age. I know I have.

[Kykiono1]

That's not much older lot of people have sex with men and women 20 years older

[RavVid]

@Kykiono1 The truth is that when I was young, I was always so eager to get in that girls didn't get much foreplay out of me.

As soon as there was a hint of moisture I was like a rat up a drain pipe. I have certainly learnt a lot of technique since those days.

[Kykiono1]

Can we talk in private @RavVid

[RavVid]

@Kykiono1 Sure, DM me. If there is any problem in dm'ing just tell me here. Shouldn't be as I enabled it.

[Kykiono1]

I sent you a message

[RavVid]

@Kykiono1 I'm glad you told me cause I didn't see it but then I noticed there was a other messages tab and could see it under that.

[Asker]

@Kykiono1 why? Old people are more likely to have erectile dysfunction . I personally also don't prefer their looks. So many are bald. Why would someone prefer it for sex?

[Asker]

I don't have heard of this sayingBetter and older mans darling than a young mans fool'.

Probably some old men said it. Most women prefer men around their age.
According to dating statistics and in real life gap between marriage couple is 2 to 3 in most developed countries. Because in developed countries. Women chose mens. But in developing countries like African countries like many African countries. It is big. Because men prefer younger women. They sort of can buy women there

[RavVid]

Yes the average age gap is 2-3 years but there is a substantially long tail on age gap in marriage and it is highly asymmetric. More than 50% of husbands are older than by 1 to 2 years but less than 15% are with the wife older than by 1 -2 years.

It is pretty clear both guys and girls prefer the man to be older, and conversely, for the woman to be younger.

I think there are good evolutionary reasons for this.

It might be only that women prefer to marry men that are more substantial in their assets and income. I have known women to say they prefer men to be older because they don't like silly boys so they could marry for maturity.

Female fertility is shorter than male fertility and male morbidity was high.

Even by 300 BC an average Egyptian male died around 22 old but women lived to 37. A man being older was an advertisement he had good genes and enough nouse not to get himself killed. Just as some women advocate to date a man on who he is and not on his (unrealized) potential we could argue there would be evolutionary advantage to women who liked men to be a bit older.

It was only in the early 1800s that women's mags were advocating to marry for love. As they disparaged women who didn't marry for love (and accused them of letting the side down) I think we can infer women possibly thought with their heads more than their hearts back in the day.

It makes sense that men like the signs of female fertility because they would have had more offspring than those who didn't care. Those men who liked older women would have not had offspring at all.

We do have free will so we aren't bounded by evolution but what we like might be influenced is my net summary.

[itsclearlynicholas]

I'd prefer women around my age yet maybe I'm lying because some of the hottest chicks are aged at least 20 (actually meaty 23) yet actually aged 23-24 the hottest with the merry attitude if my own age 29 going on 30 this year 😅😜😅😜 late bloomer me 🙂😆

[itsclearlynicholas]

So I voted A @MysticDevice

[itsclearlynicholas]

Meaty *24

[Avicenna]

I think you would find plenty of guys a little older than you who are interested.

People say lots of dumb stuff on the Internet, including here on GAG. A woman doesn't "hit a wall" at a specific age, and even a woman who has abused her body usually still looks somewhat attractive at 25.

[Anonymous]

Just because men prefer younger doesn't mean they can get them. If you know about the wall then you know you won't be able to compete with hotter 18-20 year old for the same high value men.

If you take the opinion that only the top tier men will do then yes you can buy a cat now and prepare for a like of singleton.

[Asker]

I personally don't think that 18 to 20 year old look better than late 20s purely on aesthetic.

[Opinion Owner]

You are not a man. It would be a mistake to think you assess women the way men do.

[Asker]

I have eyes through. This is just weird. Most actress men thirst for are in late 20s/early30s

[Asker]

For example I believe that people in late 20s irrespective of gender look better than someone in their 40s lol

You can recognize good looking men too

For example I can recognize a cute dog. Even though I don't want to fuck dog.

[Asker]

Also you know what. That preference suck. Because you people age.

And why do you assume high quality top dudes?

You know what it could be because I want my dude to prefer me. Me to be his ideal type. Like I am brunette. I don't want a guy who don't prefer brunette.

See? And I don't know what you mean high value men either.

I personally think that I would be cute after completely losing weight. So why would it be wrong to go for cute guy?
If I am also cute.

I mean so men don't date ugly women but I should date ugly dude despite being cute or end up alone?

What the fuck. Sound extremely unfair

[Asker]

I understand weight preference. Because you can change it. And you can stay skinny. Also height preference because people height don't change at least not drastically.

But age? So you would stop preferring your own wife after 3 or 5 year?

Is it what it mean?

[Anonymous]

I think men like younger women because they’re easier to deal with (manipulate). Lol. I mean- younger women have not experienced too many dating fails, which is why they’re more likely to give their all or have a more positive outlook when dating or getting into a relationship. I think older women are more cautious because they have had many dating fails and are less likely to trust. Again- this is my perspective on older men like 30s dating younger women in their early 20s.

[Passerby2]

Yeah you described it perfectly. Old women (28+) have old woman energy

[WadeKiet]

Age doesn't matter that much to me. Age is just a number. Some women are mentally younger than their age and some are more mature than their age. I think it's more important that a woman is mentally at the same point in life as me. That does not necessarily mean that she has to be the same age as me. In fact, it is usually women older than me that I match well with.

[elaphe]

I like who I like but at my age most women in their 40's are taken so I tend to look for those in their 30s and 20s. But who would think that 25 is "old?" Only a teenager would consider that old. Don't focus on age and focus on the quality of the people you date, is my answer. Good luck!

[adam6402]

Guys do generally date within or below their own age group, but at 25 I'd say you definitely haven't hit the wall. 30 maybe, but 25 is still young. I'm only 21 but I'd still date a 25 year old girl.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

You're still young and will be for a long time. I'm sure there's guys around your age that would love to date someone their own age. You just have to find them. Also, we're July twins. LOL I'm turning 25 this year too.

[animalwithin]

Honestly, I like women several years younger than me. I'm 34, and sadly, most women my age look terrible and weigh more than me. With younger women, they're more likely to not suffer from that issue.

[Levin]

The weight thing and letting themselves go is a huge issue. Most women are far too sedentary.

[animalwithin]

@Levin This is an issue that definitely got worse post-pandemic and now it's become socially acceptable to be overweight.

[Levin]

It has been for a long while. 40% of Americans are obese. 2/3 are overweight.

[Berethor]

I didn't care about it when I was young but women at 36 have low fertility and it get worse.

https://www.yourfertility.org.au/everyone/age

[normalice]

I prefer women with thoughts that match the marurity level of my thoughts. There isn't necissarily an age attached to this but plus or minus 5 seems to be about right.

[NavyblueTacos]

I wouldn't worry if I were you. Im above that barrier of 25, but have noticed an increased interest as I've gotten older, I assume its about a lot more than just age.

[Nikki1989]

Only the real creeps go for much younger women but sadly that counts for a lot of men. Don't listen to that wall nonsense, smart men know it is BS.

[Xia1994]

babe you won't die alone you're so young you got so much time, take your time make sure you pick the right man! may you find the love you deserve.

[Sevenpointfive]

i don't think most men care about age. i know that sounds creepy, but we just go for what attracts us.

[ProbablyClueless]

It's probably not going matter at your age, but a lot of guys tend to go for women who are a little bit younger than they are.

[Anonymous]

Okay--before freaking out about being alone, let's establish a baseline of "attractiveness" stats for you:

What's your current height and weight?

What's your brasize, waist and hip measurements?

[Asker]

I won't tell you breast or hip. That's creepy but I am not flat
170 CM 59kg

[Opinion Owner]

You've got a good weight for your height, so I wouldn't worry about dropping more. Would need to know bra size, waist and hip measures to know for sure, but you're probably fine on weight and if anything risking curves to drop more.

[Kelley1]

Although another 12 lbs would be better, 130 lbs at 5'7" is not bad. Only you know how you compare with other women near your age. However, don't compare yourself with what you see in movies and on TV because they are the top 1% and they are not average women.

[SolitarySolace]

Absolutely. I hate women in my generation. They're the reason I decided to stay single and I'm not upset about that at all. They're not worth being in relationships with let alone friends

[PeachyPie93]

Don't worry the younger guys will always want you lol

[JacobJordan]

My wife is a little bit older than me but I certainly do not like most people my age younger is even worse from what I have seen thus far

[red324]

I want a girl in her early twenties with no kids and still has a zest for life. All the girls my age either have no job and 3 kids or they're career women with no time for anything else.

[Likes2drive]

I always preferred younger women except when I was in my early twenties or younger then they were my age

[DarkLegacy]

You don;t hit the wall at 25 but yes women peak attractiveness at 23

[Jamie05rhs]

Just keep working hard on your fitness goals. You're doing great! Just keep going! 🙂

[CuriousMufuxka]

I've dated women in their early 20's since I was in my late teens.

[Iron_Man]

no because they are older than us pound per pound biologically

[Anonymous]

I'm in my 30s I don't mind being with a girl in her early to mid 30s but if she's in her 20s its better but im not that picky.

[lildkman1010]

I like my age above or below I’ll only date a 25 yo woman or higher to about 37

[DreamLife7]

You are so insecure no man is going to deal with you

[noohair]

I am 69. But 25 is over the hill? No way. You are dealing with boys, not men. Relax.

[Anonymous]

Because a woman his age won't put up with him, so he does that to feel superior around the young ones

[dolemite58]

I’m 34 and would prefer to date girls in their mid to late 20’s

[postaldudePL123]

I like women 1-2 years older than me, I weirdly I find it attractive.

[whistlingwh0res]

it's ok. men want sugar mama. you can whip them up with lash and they will like you.

[Anonymous]

Men prefer women 20-30 regardless of their own age.

[Sonorous]

cheeks are cheeks

[BoopBoopBeep]

i fall for the person, not her age

[MysticDevice]

I absolutely prefer to date around my age.

[CozyCoffin]

I'll go for 18-43.

[litty736]

Men almost always prefer younger

[strateguy632]

.,1st,.

[Anonymous]

Pretty much.