Guys, how do you treat a girl you're interested in?

[Anonymous]

[JoePro_]

I'll usually give her more of my time than others on average. I like to visit with people, but girls I'm interested in, I'll linger around a little longer, look for more things to talk about so long as they seem interested. I'll usually offer her more compliments than I do others as well. Try to give her openings where she might try to offer herself to come along. Going out to lunch, talking about seeing a movie by myself, let her know I'm about to go grab a coffee. I'm also more likely to buy her your average day to day stuff. Maybe bring her a coffee if I know what she likes, see and buy a keychain for a character she likes, stuff like that. But these days, I also don't expect that it's going to mean anything more than me being nice. If she's interested, she'll take the initiative to add to what I'm doing and saying. If she doesn't, then I'll assume at some point that she's not interested in me being anything more than a friend, which I'm also okay with. I'll still be nice to her, but I'll move on and give that extra attention to someone else.

[AaronKrieger]

I am playful, ask questions, and make the effort to talk to her. After a little bit I will probably ask her out, since I do not want to become friends with someone I am into.

It all depends on the situation, how we met, etc.

[Nirmroth]

Going out of my way for her, flirt/tease, Make time for her and if I dont got it try to find another solution to make it work, seek her company.

[Asker]

What are some examples of teasing? What do you say or do?

[Nirmroth]

Misinterpreting/ Twisting things on purpose were you both know its not true.

Example cut out of a chat I had with a girl on a dating app talking about dogs:

Her: No lol I just decided what type of dog I wanted and what name when I was 15

Me: Planning your dogs entire life since you're 15, I hope you dont turn into those moms that does that to their kids

[Asker]

Wow that's really annoying. I avoid guys that talk like this because it just sounds disrespectful especially since you don't know me and you're just getting to know me.

[Nirmroth]

I do it bec I love banter like this, that it isn't everyones fitt is allright. Im not dating to get new friends but to find a partner.

[Asker]

What did she reply with when u said that?

[Nirmroth]

Laughed and defended/explained herself. I asked for a date afterwards and we went out last Friday.

[Asker]

And you kept making those kinda jokes 😂

[Nirmroth]

Yes, I get more dates since I started teasing and stopped just boringly exchaning informations

[Asker]

Ok well good for you lol have u ever flirted like this before?
youtube.com/shorts/dnJA9Fx0uMQ?feature=shared

[Nirmroth]

No thats a bit to cheesy for me would only say that to a girlfriend

[Asker]

It's not cheesy. It's cute af. ☺️ Tbh the thing you said about hoping she doesn't become a helicopter mom, is cheesy to me 😂

[Nirmroth]

Were we would be back to the realization that everyone is different 🤷

[Asker]

It's not gonna work out unfortunately 😔

[Nirmroth]

roses are red, violets are blue, sugar is sweet, and so are you

[Asker]

Aww that's cute 🥺

[Nirmroth]

Does that mean we are dating now?

[Asker]

You're cute, why not? 🤣

[GWolcott]

Be polite to her, be a humble person but at same time. show self confidents
Plus Nothing more important than being yourself in front of her.

[GWolcott]

Or just ignore her

[Asker]

Haha I like the last part 😂

[Anonymous]

I get really, really shy. I probably come off as standoffish.

[Asker]

Do you end up looking like you're annoyed by them?

[Opinion Owner]

Probably. I act like they dont exist when they are close to me.

[Anonymous]

Try being closer friends, usually doesn't work nowadays tho

[Asker]

Like best friends?

[Opinion Owner]

If it's me and I like her, I want to get to know her as a friend first then ask her out, but nowadays girls put guys as off limits in friend zone for wanting friends first. Doesn't matter I can't just cold like some girl I don't know.

[BonzoInBitburg]

I asked her out

[riverrat3]

I flirt