Guys, My boyfriend and I had Valentine's together. Found out he was talking to someone girl the next day? Do you think it is over?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I had Valentine's together. He bought me a stuffed animal, chocolates, and a card. We had a great time. Then, a few days later, some girl told me he was talking to her and a few others. So I asked him about it, and he admitted it was true, but they were just friends. He ignored me for a few days and told me that ignoring had nothing to do with them but that he was mad at me, so he ignored me. He has been distant lately and seems to have started talking to these female friends again. Do you think he is cheating or maybe not interested in me anymore?

[Anonymous]

You’re assuming he’s cheating. So yes most men would be mad about that. Ever think that maybe this girl is trying to break you two up? I mean what was the point of her telling you? What was she hoping to accomplish? Did she say what they talked about? I mean because women and men can just talk to talk. You know that right? Besides it’s even more suspicious to me that she engaged in this talk as well as these other girls then goes and tells you? I’d be mad too especially if I’ve never given you a reason to think I’ve done something before.

[FunkyMonkee]

How would you feel if you talked to a few guy friends and he found out and insinuated that you were cheating on him?

[LiamJHayden]

Did you discuss being exclusive or did you just assume it? If you did, he was messing. If you didn't, you did not communicate what you thought existed.

[BonzoInBitburg]

It would be over for me

[jahaims]

Have self respect and move on

[In_Trance]

It's your relationship you tell us