My long distance boyfriend has been given a lot of difficulties surrounding his family. He (25m) decided to get a second job, and help his family out for medical reasons as they just found things out.
he told me two weeks ago he can’t focus on outside things, so I asked if he was breaking up with me. He said no, multiple times. Everything was going great. I then noticed one day he had un-tagged me in photos and deleted my comments on his posts.
I freaked out, asked if there was someone else because I noticed there were off patterns that were happening lately. He then said I was obsessed with social media and that he forces himself to use it because I’m “obsessed”. Mind you, at the beginning of us meeting, he told me he loved to show off his gf’s. Through the relationship I asked if he could post me and he would make up reasons no to, and I would believe him (ex: we don’t have enough photos, we don’t have any pics together since we’re LD).
He was going on about how he’s been working back to back, double shifts, helping family, and his new second job; he’s tired. He said I complain too much (all I do is tell him how I feel about certain situations because when he tells small lies they don’t add up and he gets mad when I point them out). I told him if he’s not happy, it’s hurting both of us, and that he can leave to go be happy and not with me.
having rebuttals during the conversation, he told me to leave him alone, he’s stressed to max, he doesn’t need this rn, and repeatedly told me to leave him alone.
so I have, but I did ask if that meant were over or if it’s just needing a cooling off period. Left me on read. Two days later I asked what’s going on because he won’t text me and to give me a clear answer. but will snapchat back (with a dark screen), watch my stories, follow each other on social media, let me use his streaming services (I don’t use often but I’m still signed in) and we both still have each other’s location on.
he told me two weeks ago he can’t focus on outside things, so I asked if he was breaking up with me. He said no, multiple times. Everything was going great. I then noticed one day he had un-tagged me in photos and deleted my comments on his posts.
I freaked out, asked if there was someone else because I noticed there were off patterns that were happening lately. He then said I was obsessed with social media and that he forces himself to use it because I’m “obsessed”. Mind you, at the beginning of us meeting, he told me he loved to show off his gf’s. Through the relationship I asked if he could post me and he would make up reasons no to, and I would believe him (ex: we don’t have enough photos, we don’t have any pics together since we’re LD).
He was going on about how he’s been working back to back, double shifts, helping family, and his new second job; he’s tired. He said I complain too much (all I do is tell him how I feel about certain situations because when he tells small lies they don’t add up and he gets mad when I point them out). I told him if he’s not happy, it’s hurting both of us, and that he can leave to go be happy and not with me.
having rebuttals during the conversation, he told me to leave him alone, he’s stressed to max, he doesn’t need this rn, and repeatedly told me to leave him alone.
so I have, but I did ask if that meant were over or if it’s just needing a cooling off period. Left me on read. Two days later I asked what’s going on because he won’t text me and to give me a clear answer. but will snapchat back (with a dark screen), watch my stories, follow each other on social media, let me use his streaming services (I don’t use often but I’m still signed in) and we both still have each other’s location on.
