My boyfriend pushes me away then calls me again?

[Anonymous]

He is feeling down and depressed asked to ha e some space to be on his own, said "sometimes I just need some time alone being miserable"

We went to the doctors (regular check) then came back and he wouldn't speak

I was like "oukeey. what you want to do?"

He said he wanted to sleep. So i said ok good. Im going home. I was pissed he was very stropy and moody to me. Asked if its necessary to go down the staris i said no. So he didn't even glanced at me svutting the damn door

I went to my car and started crying

He called me and said:" whats wrong with you. why are you stropy"

I said im worried he is depressed and i wanna help and that ill tbink about him

He said :"stop thinking about me."

Then he started to say he appreciates support.

So he calls me to tell me to forget him and leave him alone?

He was stropy one he was the one who didn't even say bye to me

[Anonymous]

Depression affects everyone differently, and you might not be equipped to deal with how it affects him. Mood swings, extremities in sadness or anger, these are unfortunately part of his illness, and you have to be very honest with yourself about whether or not you can deal with it.

[Asker]

Im tired
I done
He is junkie too
Instead of going to doctors and soend some mo ey he spends sme ammount of money on cocaine

[Asker]

And gets angry everytime i bring the topic

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, that’s not okay at all. If he was doing the work to get help and better himself then I would think that maybe this is just about patience. But no, if he’s volatile, angry and a junkie then that’s not a good man to have as your boyfriend. Imagine someone like him as a husband and father, that would be a nightmare.

[Asker]

He promises and promises
Never keeps his words
When i say :if the money you spend on cocaine you spend on doctors you would feel much better
He gets angry
Today we were near one of the biggest drug dealers, which is ironically near the hospital
He went to buy some and told me to go to the car.
I was in awe...
He said he wants to buy just in case he gets sick again and because its more cheaper
He said it like its smth totally normal
I was in shock i couldnt say a word

[Asker]

He ignores my calls and my messages today
I found a cheaped doctor, lime twoce cheaper
He doesn't know it yet
I wanna say it tomorrow to him
Im even willing to pay half just to get him to the doctor

[Alex-Snow]

It sounds like he may be having some depression. Hopefully he can get it taken care of. Encourage him to get outside more, to exercise more. Has it messed up ur sex life with him?

[Asker]

No
He gets horny whe takes drugs

[laly520]

let him have some space

[Asker]

Wh y he is so rude to me

[laly520]

he isn't doing well so it could be reason why he is rude

[Asker]

Im never rude when i feel bad

[laly520]

not all people r the same

[BarryLiverstone]

What is your question?

[Asker]

Why he calls me to tell me to forget him
If i was the one who left his house
And why tell me to forget him
Then tell me thanks fo support

[BarryLiverstone]

He called to ask what’s wrong

[boggboss]

Just give him space

[boggboss]

He called u because he knew u was upset but he still wants his own space people that are depressed ain't in the vest shapes to be in a relationship so expecting him to act normal or good is silly

[Asker]

Why he calls me and tells me to forget about him
Then tells me thanks fo support?

[Asker]

He is 46
I think he must be able to control himself

[boggboss]

Have u never dealt with someone with depression if u think he can just control himself u clearly have no clue about mental health lol expecting him to act normal in this situation makes no sense

[Asker]

Pff ok then
I guess ill be single

[boggboss]

Better to be single then date someone with mental health and expect them to act normal