My fiancé adding random women on Instagram?

[Anonymous]

My fiancé has been adding random women on Instagram. For example, he said he met a woman a few years ago and he requested her. She didn’t accept until now, and he accepted her follow request and he let her follow him. She lives abroad.

He’s often saying flirty things about other women. It hurts me that he’s adding random women. Am I overreacting?

[Anonymous]

No you’re not. It’s one thing as far as men checking out other women. That will always happens no matter what. A lot of men say they don’t but I think that’s a lie. Now the difference is he’s adding them online, so he’s possibly engaging in talk w them to get off on it. To boost his ego. But that also means a lot of men who have female friends do the same thing. Most men have friends who they would bang. I know I would. That’s why I don’t have female “friends”. I have co-workers, that’s it. If he’s checking out other women he needs to be discreet about it. I get how it makes you feel.

[spartan55]

Ah stupid Instagram ruining relationships by the thousands on a daily basis.

[misfitwomen12]

I’m not married so maybe I can’t say something about this matter but what concerned me was… why are you with a man who says flirty stuff about women to them or to you? would he be fine with you saying how good a man looked? honestly that’s the main problem you have let him have his way to talked to about women, he can have friends if that’s your boat but saying they’re a good looking what not crosses the line in my opinion.

[boggboss]

No but this is what u allow so

[jjj101010]

Is it a one off or regularly?