I am 20. Why this guy said that he was 17 year old while he is 19?

[Anonymous]

I know this guy for months. And i never had feelings for him. But since past few days he has been flirting with me over text. He complimented me a lot. And i started to like him little. Now he is’nt behaving same. Yesterday He lied that he is 17. What does it mean? Is he playing with my feelings.

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl that's so weird of him to lie about his age like that! Who knows what his deal is?

A few possibilities:

- Maybe he thinks you won't be interested since he's only 19 and not like, 20+ or something. Some girls care about little age differences 🤷🏻‍♀️

- It's possible he just has mad insecurities and wants to seem cooler/tougher than he is? Like telling girls he's young but acts older I don't know

- I wouldn't fully rule out he's playing with your feelings for fun. Some dudes do act all into you then pull away to keep you on the hook.

- But there's also a chance he has some underlying issue makes him wanna fudge the truth sometimes. Maybe not all there, ya feel?

Honestly sis I'd be side-eying him hardcore after that lie. Like why start things off dodgy, ya know? I'd play it cool for now but watch for anymore shady behavior before really trusting him. And definitely don't catch any real feels till you know his deal! Men will do the most sometimes, UGH.

[firenine909]

Did he assume you were a minor?

[Asker]

no he said it after i told him that i am 20

[firenine909]

I have no clue why he’d lie about his age

[Asker]

few hours ago he texted me and asked how many guys i talk to. and when i said you are only one, he did not believe me. do u think he likes me

[firenine909]

He likes you but he also might want to fuck you too. Why don’t you flirt back with him, try to tease him a bit?

[Asker]

actually i am one year older than him so i feel guilty for liking him. it's embarrasing

[firenine909]

There’s nothing to be guilty about. Flirt with him back, tell him you like what he’s saying. He likes you so you should let him know you do too.

[Asker]

okay thanks

[firenine909]

Do you want to date him or what would you like to do?

[Asker]

i like him because he is handsome. i would not date him because i am scared of being heartbroken again.

[Asker]

i want him to remain my good friend

[firenine909]

Then tell him you’d like to just be friends with him if he’s cool with it

[Asker]

okay. 2 days ago at night he texted me that if he could kiss me. i said yes. he stayed up whole night and kept flirting. next day he deleted chats and said that i talk dirty to him so he had to delete chats. i am confused

[firenine909]

Maybe he’s embarrassed or doesn’t want to come off a certain way. He likes you so why don’t you kiss him and see where it goes from there? Have a little fun when you see him too

[Asker]

okay

[firenine909]

Do you want to kiss him and what dirty talk were you saying?

[Asker]

no. we did'nt talk dirty. we talked about kissing.

[firenine909]

Then kiss him and confess have a little fun with him

[Nikki1989]

Most men lie constantly, especially at that age.

[Asker]

What do u think? Does he like me or not

[laly520]

lying cuz he thinks he is so young