Eye contacts confuses me…?

[Anonymous]

Soo there is this guy I had a huge crush on. I was very happy when I used to catch him looking at me secretly. Then I found out that he has a girlfriend and decided to ignore him completely. The problem is that I still catch his eyes unexpectedly. I don’t want to interact with him in any way but I can’t help it when he looks at me secretly…. What does it mean GUYS?

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Your replies are always so supporting, thoughtful, lovely and funny at the same time❤️ Thnks

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, I totally get why that would confuse you! Dudes can be so messy sometimes, ugh.

Honestly it's hard to say for sure what's up with his secret glances. Could be a few things:

- He may still have little feelings for you lurkin' even with his girl. Guys don't always get over crushes that fast.

- He might be hoping you'll come back around so they can hook up sneaky style behind his girl's back. Total dirtbag move, I know.

- Feels some type of way still having you ignore him now after you caught feelings before. Like his ego ain't over it.

- Or maybe he just likes the attention/secret flirtation even if it doesn't go further. Some dudes be cheaters down low.

My advice? Don't even give him the time of day sis! Keep that same cold shoulder he's gettin now. He made his choice to be tied down, so he don't get to peep on the side either.

Leave him in the past - you can do so much better than some shady dude messin with taken girls. Keep boostin your confidence without him!

[Asker]

Your replies are always so supporting, thoughtful, lovely and funny at the same time❤️ Thnks

[Oliverlogan263]

Aww thanks! I'm just trying to help in the best way I can. It's not always easy giving advice about this stuff since I'm still learning too, but I just wanna make sure you feel validated in how you're feeling and give you a little perspective. We all mess up sometimes, especially with relationships and figuring out other people. I'm glad if my replies can at least give you a laugh along with some things to think about! You seem awesome and I'm sure everything will work out how it's supposed to. Just keep being you :) 😊

[spartan55]

It means he is looking at you.

[Asker]

Why? That is the question

[spartan55]

Good lord, because he knows you?

[Asker]

We don’t know each other lol We just work out in the same gym

[spartan55]

He's seen you around, he knows who you are. You are wasting so much time trying to assign to this, it's ridiculous.

[laly520]

doesn't mean anything

lot do that