What that means if a guy says he is ok being single if a girl doesn't reciprocating or not telling her real feelings?

[Anonymous]

[Ms_Facesitter]

He's just comfortable where he is now. There are many guys and girls out there who are unhappy being single, but he doesn't really mind.

[Asker]

Saying that one day and pursuing the same person the very next day... ?

[Ms_Facesitter]

It doesn't mean that because he's comfortable being single, that he wouldn't want to date someone.

[Asker]

Lol isn't this weird or something?

[Ms_Facesitter]

I don't find it weird. I didn't mind being single either. One day I got approached by a random guy and now we're in a relationship, it's also nice. I wanted a relationship, but didn't the fact that I was single let me down or anything, I was still living happily, you know?

[BearKitty]

Just because he likes someone, he is okay being single too. He isn't going to date the first person who gives him attention. He is happy with himself enough to not be desperate.

[Asker]

But still not stopping himself from pursuing?

[BearKitty]

Well he can like someone and still be happy where he is. Just because he doesn't get that person doesn't mean he has to be sad being alone. Nothing is sexier than a man who is confident enough in himself that rejection doesn't turn him into a depressed human being but happy with himself.

Is this a man you like who wants someone else?

[Asker]

Saying he is happy single the moment he gets ignored... while after some moments starts pursuing again... I can't understand

[BearKitty]

Ohhh, is he pursuing you and then when you finally express an interest back he's like "woah, I'm happy with myself, I'm not looking for a relationship" and then start back up when you stop giving him attention?

[Asker]

When I stop giving him attention than he says that 'im happy single' otherwise he doesn't say that if I keep giving attention

[BearKitty]

Well if you like him, then why do you stop giving him attention?

[Asker]

It's because I think he is moody and hasn't moved on from his first love...

[BonzoInBitburg]

My wife and I were both ok being single when we met.

[Anonymous]

He doesn't have time to play games.