He's interested in you, but he probably doesn't know if you are interested. He probably also realizes that making any kind of a move towards a woman in the workplace is borderline suicidal. Like seriously; the shit storm that would rain down on him if he made a move on you is totally not worth the effort. If you want to date him, you need to get after it and be ready to document the hell out of the everything (keeping records is something I've started doing, simply to protect myself from women I've dated). Also, you really should tell HR if you do start dating. By telling HR, you're protecting everyone involved.
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Sound like he is actually married and wants you to have sex with you but is afraid of getting caught by a Superior officer is why he only flirts with you when you along so there's no eye witnesses that would be able to Collaborate Any accusations should you report him to his Superior
He's trying to get you to date him. But now that he sees it's not working, he now wants to play hard to get to get you to now want and chase him. Let him play those games elsewhere. If he doesn't get that you're not interested then the problem is not you, it's really him. But maybe, it is sorta your problem by not telling him. So yeah, do just tell him. But be respectful at least. I don't believe he's a bad guy, but he is not respecting you either. And besides, if you working together that is a big no-no. Why flirt in private but not in public? I don't agree with flirting but that is a red flag.
Duh! He likes you and is Interested. What else would he be wanting? It's pretty obvious what he wants, you're either Just in denial about his Interest or you already know. These questions that you are continuously asking are meaningless, they're too obvious and you know the answers to them already is what I bet. He keeps telling you he's single because he wants you to know that he's available, why else would anyone keep telling you that they're single persistently like that? He's making himself pretty clear in terms of hints and you already can't tell?
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He wants YOU to want HIM.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/-qgpewMCVjsCould mean a lot, but be careful to jump to conclusions. But the opposite also can be false, I always tell pretty fast about my fiancee, as many guys usually get me wrong, as I'd love to flirt, and love the attention I alway get from especially guys. But I know were to draw a line.
He likes you but takes it slow to build up tension while he's figuring out what exactly he's feeling or how strongly, while at the same time allowing you to choose your reaction - if you feel something for him you should show SOME SIGN.
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He wants to date you but wants to play it cool so he doesn't look, desperate
Sounds like he wants you for some side action... He probably has a regular girlfriend, but its not a committed relationship so he considers himself single... id brush him off when he flirts... see how he responds... make him chase you aka work for it...
What do you know about him?
Do you like him?
Would you like to date or have a relationship?
You can tell him what you like and ask him to be honest. If he really likes you, he should reapect your wish. Set your rules, girl.He just likes your personality, oh he wants to hit that booty, oh I mean he’s a hard working young man, oh yeah he would like to get with. I’m sure you two could go for coffee. I forget to tell you he just wants to hit it.
Would you date him if he asked? Seems a bit cowardly that he hasn't asked you out already. If not, then tell his friends that you aren't interested -- they will tell him.
"He changed his route home" -- that seems pretty creepy to me.One of two things:
He’s single.
Or, he’s not.
Begging the question, why so often? Is he trying to place a suggestion? or does he think you’re not listening?RUN!! He's an immature fool that's so afraid of rejection that he won't approach his infatuation of you front on and like a man I would avoid this "man".
He's just a tease, and a flirt but probably has no real intentions. He just enjoys the tension and may be a little obsessed. The idea of you, is more attractive to him than the reality of it.
He sounds a bit weird and obsessive but also think he really likes you but doesn't excuse the creepy vibes
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Sounds like he is interested but playing some hard-to-get game.
The question is really what do you want? Either you are interested and should initiate something, or you are not, and so let it go and live your life.
He wants to have fun. He says he is single so you know he can take you out and find pleasure with him.
He is hoping you'll be excited that he's single. he's hoping to test your interest in him by mentioning he is single.
Haven't you got the hint.. He's single and free and wants to date you!
Well, it might be an interesting exercise to figure it out... Just take a sheet of paper and go through the possibilities
he wants sex. maybe he is lonely but if so he is not the Kind of person you want to be in a relatiinship with..
this guy wants you... in one way or another... and he's got his friends in on his scheme to get you... he's hoping you'll seduce him probly... or maybe he's a stalker... i don't like that he changed his route home, that's weird
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