My boyfriend always hurts himself or he wants my attention?

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Everytime we stop talking for some days Or he knows im not pleased with his behaviour He sends me messages saying he hurt himself or is sick or is in pain or needs a doctor... fucking attention whore He always does it and is always about health Why?

Literally we a re on the phones for an hour talking about how he hurt his arm with a cactus... damn cactus

I want to cry and laugh wtf is this😂

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1 y

Chill...

[provokeesmokee]

Jesus Christ. Is he also in his 30s?

Fucking leave this emotionally abusive asshole. This is textbook abusive behaviour.

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

4 fucking 6

[tierrlamé]

Sounds very toxic. Both with not talking for days and for him to hurt himself for whatever reason. Non of my business tho hope it all works out for the best!:)

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

He is not hurting himself om purpose
We talk once a day
We had some issues and decided to take time

[tierrlamé]

alright

[soe11]

My advice to you, leave him alone, or get new boyfriend. i never disturb my girlfriend nor call her at work or duty.

[slatyb]

Is this fun? Dump this guy and meet an adult.

[Bklynbadboy12]

He's tryin to mind fuck you don't fall for it

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

what does it mean?

[Bklynbadboy12]

It means he's a lunatic that gonna hold on to you by manipulating you. He won't hurt himself he just want you to think he will so you won't leave

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Why he needsme?

[LunarEclipse433]

Just craving your attention

[Anonymous]

Manipulative. I had ex who would do the same thing

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Why he does it
What for
Like he had whole day to talk to me
He didn't... and the only message i get in whole day is him complaining about his cactus "injury"

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

What he tries to manioulates
I mean wbat Into he wants to manipulate me?

[Opinion Owner]

You stop talking to him for a few days or you're mad at his behavior so he tries to manipulate you into forgiving him.

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

But why he always does it saying something is wrong with his health?
So i feel pity?

[Opinion Owner]

Yep.

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

But why?
Why a man wants for a woman feel pity for him?

[Opinion Owner]

I told you why