Guys, my boyfriend checked out the singles market on facebook the other day. he didn’t message anybody. and barely looked. ?

[Pmtrout55]

He didn’t message anybody. It has been 2 years since he cheated. I have access to everything whenever I want it. However, I am on a certain level of constant anxiety. He says he won’t cheat cause he has so much to lose. But my father said the same thing. And here we are. I’m confused as to how I should feel. Will he cheat? Or was he just normal guy curious? Since he didn’t act on it when he has a chance.

[strateguy632]

like the guy who kissed a second, got caught n said, "i never said we were exclusive ". say: you want exclusive so stop looking for alternatives".

[Wise4myage]

Probably just random.

[boobliker]

yes, we do it all the time looking is ok I've been told.

[Iron_Man]

You better talk to him about it. Why is he on there

[Pmtrout55]

I did talk to him about it. He said he don’t know why. And fed me some random bullshit. He’s never been a good communicator though. He’s working on it. That’s why I’m asking y’all.

[Iron_Man]

He doesn’t sound like a good boyfriend and once a cheater always a cheater pretty much

[Pmtrout55]

I don’t believe that’s true. My dad was once a cheater. And never cheated again. people grow up. And grow out of old habits.
My boyfriend is. A self aware narcissist. And that don’t make him the villain. He lacks empathy. But I do think he’s making an effort to listen to how his actions impact others. That’s why I’m confused.

[Iron_Man]

You’re not getting anywhere with this guy and he already cheated on you he can’t even communicate well and he sounds boring people that can’t communicate are boring and right now he raised another red flag. You’re still in love with him so you’re protecting yourself and protecting the situation, but think outside the box. Analyze, everything in great details is it really worth it another two years with somebody like this, that you’re complaining about that violated your trust by cheating what’s the point? Your dad is a one in a million shot that didn’t cheat again but that doesn’t speak for other people. I would give him the one strike and your out rule lay the law down. I would have a serious conversation with him first thing in the morning if I were you. He’s lucky you’re so nice and willing to let the cheating go if it was me I would never take anybody back that cheated on me sexually or any foreplay or kissing. I am nice but that’s the ultimate betrayal cheating as far as relationships, go and that’s a no no.

[In_Trance]

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