I enjoy talking to you and I am attracted to you - What does that mean coming from a guy?

[Anonymous]

“I enjoy talking to you and I am attracted to you - But I’d hate to make you feel uncomfortable.”

What does it mean? Does it mean just sexual attraction?

[ProbablyClueless]

Attraction means a whole host of things, right? So he probably finds you physically appealing, but he's also enjoying interacting with you as a person.

I don't know how much interaction you've had with him besides this conversation, but if you haven't had much, your best bet is probably just to take the comment at face value.

[Asker]

We have been texting up to 3 months and we have had some calls. He is the one initiating calls and texts, he has called me “baby”, but we haven’t talked about our feelings other than investing in each others’ lives.

We live in different countries currently and he plans to meet up with me in a few months.

[ProbablyClueless]

Oh okay. Based on that, I'd still say there's no harm in taking his comment at face value and see where things go. The nice thing about life and relationships is that there's a whole world of things happening that we don't know about! =)

Live your life, see what happens, you know?

[Asker]

You mean, you think he likes me?

[ProbablyClueless]

Yeah, but the connection is also in the early stages. So the guy seems to like you, but he's still getting to know you. He's still figuring out what he wants the relationship to be.

[Asker]

How do I know if he wants a serious relationship? And how do I make sure that’s what he wants?

[ProbablyClueless]

I just told you. You have to give it time and let things develop naturally. Give him a chance to show you that what he says lines up with reality. Being upfront and intense about that stuff before he has a chance to get to know you is going to be a total turn off. Just live your life like normal until the picture becomes clearer. You won't waste your time by taking your time, unless you put the rest of your life on hold

[Asker]

Thank you, I will do so.

[ProbablyClueless]

Best of luck!

[strateguy632]

it means 2 nice compliments and he found you attractive.

not just sexual as he specified conversation. the ending means don't interpret sexualy.

[evgonz0410]

Attraction can mean anything from him being romantically interested in you to sexually attracted to you. Honestly if you’re comfortable with asking the question, I don’t see the harm in asking if he meant that in a romantic way. It’s pretty obvious that he is interested in you though!

[Ms_Facesitter]

If you say those exact words, YOU, what does it mean?

[Asker]

I would say that to someone I’d care for… You?

[Ms_Facesitter]

Well. When they say those words, it usually means the same thing.

[Ms_Facesitter]

But I'm talking about the message itself. Some guys will try to say anything to get to sleep with you.

[LaurenM1997]

It means he likes you and wants to chat more

[bobalife]

The same as he said aka he likes you lol

[Asker]

Why didn’t he say straight away like haha

[bobalife]

Lol people just aren’t always direct with “I like you”

[Danny_dan92]

You’re kidding…

[Asker]

I am not… Could you help out?

[Danny_dan92]

I can’t believe this

[Asker]

Come on… Just tell me your thoughts. I am not very experienced.

I am scared for people who might just be sexually attracted. So what do you think?

[Danny_dan92]

The boy literally straight up told you how he thinks about you…

[Asker]

And how he thinks about me?

Enjoying talking and being attracted doesn’t mean much in my book…