What does this reaction from both these guys towards me show?

[Anonymous]

Talking to two married guys at work on separate occasions. They both appear completely normal and then out of nowhere have a spooked look in their eye. Like a micro expression and then go back to being normal.

normally wouldn’t notice but both of them had it

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm that's weird that both married guys acted spooked talking to you out of nowhere. Could be a few things going on:

- They might be attracted to you and feeling guilty about it since they're married. So your pretty face surprised them lol.

- Or they could be creepin' and you caught them checking you out when they thought you weren't looking. Dudes will do that.

- Possibly they're just nervous talking to any girl since they're not supposed to. Being married made them panic you'd get the wrong idea.

- Could be totally random too, like they spaced out thinking of something else for a sec.

I wouldn't read too much into one weird look honestly. But if they keep actin weird, trust your gut feeling. Don't be alone with either of them just in case. Some married guys will flirt around and you don't need that drama, ya know?

Keep things friendly professional at work. Maybe they were just having a spooked moment! But don't stress, you're probably just that gorgeous sis ☺️

[Asker]

Thanks for the insight !

[Oliverlogan263]

You're welcome! Always happy to try and help make sense of weird reactions guys have. We can be pretty strange and unpredictable creatures haha. Hope this gave you some ideas about what might have been going through their heads. Don't worry too much about those dudes - keep doin' your thing at work and don't let their spooky faces get to you. Later!

[Asker]

Haha

[Oliverlogan263]

Haha for real girl! We gotta support each other out here and have each other's backs. Dealing with workplace politics can be so tiresome sometimes.

I'm just glad we could break down that situation logically and now you have some reassurance. 'Cause you know how it is - in the moment all kinds of bogus scenarios start swirling in your head!

But nah, fuck all that noise. You keep doing your thing and stay shining above it all. Trust me, nothing but clear skies ahead once you graduate from dealing with immature dudes like that.

You got this! Now go celebrate yourself with some self-care. Face mask, glass of wine, your fave funny videos - treat yoself! You deserve to unwind after holding down the fort. Queens gotta stick together out here 💅

[Asker]

Thank you!

[Oliverlogan263]

No prob! Thanks for telling me about all that weird stuff with the guys at work. It's always good to get another dude's perspective, ya know?

Even if I don't have all the answers, at least we could bounce some ideas around and get you feeling less creeped out by it. Friends look out for each other like that. I'm always here if you wanna chat about random stuff like this too!

But yeah, really seems like nothing major to stress over. Those married guys probably just have a lot on their mind. As long as they're chill to you now that's all that matters, right?

Anyway, I'm sure you've got better things to think about than some weird stares. Keep killin it at your job and forget about all that small small stuff! Hit me up later if you wanna hang too. Later!

[Anonymous]

I'm not married but on many occasions when having a perfectly normal conversation with one of the married women at work. For a micro second she has an expression on her face of complete desire. Her eyes light up and sparkle and she looks at me like she wants to absolutely devour me... and then her expression goes back to being perfectly normal almost as quickly as it happened.

Therefore either you are unwittingly doing that or they are realising they desire you 'unexpectedly' and then felt guilty and shut it down. The thing about micro expressions is they are all subconscious and generally cannot be controlled so it is interesting that you used the exact term. I've also noticed another married woman doing similar and another guy at work noticed (he mentioned it to me). But he is one of the most observant so most won't notice.

I did some brief micro expression detection training after I became interested in it after watching 'Lie To Me' TV series. Only the first episode is accurate.

Of course I could be wrong since I'm only going from what you've said. If I saw it, I would know. I am curious now haha.

[Asker]

lol the speed of it. I can relate. It’s how it changes in a snap back to normal. ‘or they are realising they desire you 'unexpectedly' and then felt guilty and shut it down. The thing about micro expressions is they are all subconscious and generally cannot be controlled so it is interesting that you used the exact term.’ Exactly the ‘normal’ expression is put on but one can never fake a micro expression so reveals their true feelings and then they subconsciously get rid of it and go back to the poker face

[Anonymous]

Hm? Need more dets.. When you say talking you mean just having a random conversation and they both made similar faces and then just keep talking? Were you talking to them both at the same time or separately? What were the convos about?

[Asker]

Frightened for a split second during eye contact

[Opinion Owner]

I understand the micro expression you’re talking about but in order to answer you question I need more context. What were you talking to these guys about? Why do you feel it’s important to mention that they were married? Was this a group conversation or were you having separate conversations with them? What were you talking about with them?

[Asker]

Ok great you get the one I’m talking about. We were making small talk and then it got slightly deep on both occasions when they talked about personal stuff. But it happened on part of the conversation that was less serious

[Opinion Owner]

Interesting. Honesty it could be the way you’re speaking or a phrase you’re using, maybe a face you’re making at them that’s provoking that expression? Or it could just be a coincidence? Sorry but I think I would have to witness the conversation myself, as I’m not quite sure why they both made those faces while talking to you.

[Asker]

They’re both quite handsome so I may have not realised I was gazing at them or whether they suddenly developed feelings for me mid conversation and then it spooked them out or they had a totally unrelated thought

[Opinion Owner]

That is also a possibility. I would need to see the interactions myself and judge each one. Sorry I can’t be of more help but it’s one of those, “you just have to be there” type situations to give you a possible meaning for their expressions.

[236color]

I have no freaking clue. This is once again, women reading way to much into something the guy probably isn't even aware of.

[spartan55]

No idea what you mean by a 'spooked look'.

[Asker]

Frightened for a split second during eye contact

[spartan55]

Frightened of what?