😕 confusion-what exactly I can do?

[Anonymous]

Currently, I'm single, actually. I'm single for a long time, but I don't know how to sort it out whatever is happening with me..
So here is the situation
Now, there are a number of guys in my life who are flirting with me, giving me mixed singles
Guy 1: he flirts with me , wants to spend lots of time with me, but lives in another city and always wants me to be there, but he's very much workaholic
Guy 2: he likes a lot , takes care of me, always has concerns about me, but I have best friends, kind of bond with him, and I don't want it to be more than friendship
Guy 3: so this guy is saying first I think you should know me very well, know about me how I am then let's decide what should we do about our bond.. Currently we are just talking to each other sometimes not daily n no meets up n all then how I'll get to know him
Guy 4: So he's my EX. My first true love is out of no where he contacted me just 2 days before because he's missing me... what? Why?


What should I do

[Oliverlogan263]

Woah dude that's complicated. You gotta lots of guys giving you attention which is cool but makes things confusing too. Here's what I think:

Guy 1 - long distance is too hard, don't chase what you can't have. He's busy with work anyway so don't waste your time.

Guy 2 - if you just want to be friends then keep it that way. Don't lead him on though.

Guy 3 - he's taking it way too slow. Life's short, you don't wanna wait around to get to know someone. Move on.

Guy 4 - ex is an ex for a reason! Don't go down that messy road again. He's probably just bored or lonely, not really missing you.

My advice - don't stress too much trying to decide between them. Seems like none are really worth it tbh. I'd tell them all you're not interested anymore and just do you for a bit. Have fun, find hobbies you like and focus on yourself and your girls. The right guy will come around when you least expect it!

For now just say "thanks but no thanks" to these dudes. You got this! Don't let any guy pressure you or waste your time. You're amazing - keep shining.

[Mr_twoface]

Guy 1: dump him and move on. Selfish pricks are not worth spending your time on.
Guy 2: Since you don't want more than friendship. Just leave it to that.
Guy 3: Explore this venue further. See where it goes and whether you like him.
Guy 4: Usually people say never get back with your ex. I say, it all depends on the reasons you broke up with him. If it is things you can work out between yourselves and you still love each other. Its always the better option. If he however cheated, lied, mistreated you etc. then those are red flags and then you need to move on.

Guy 5: Is moving on trying to find other men you can go on dates with, in order to find a better potential man.

Good luck!

[spartan55]

I would say D, none of the above.

[laly520]

third guy seems ok to try with him