The guy I like wants friends with benefits?

[RAVENCLAWS]

Am 56 and he is 33 we had sex but I done friends with benefits and I get very emotional I don’t know what to do

[Anonymous]

It’s probably not gonna work out.

Look: this relationship will go absolutely nowhere. He will NEVER want something serious with you because of the age difference. You’re just some free tail. And at 33 he could still pull women half your age AND actually have a relationship with them, maybe a family. A FUTURE. With you there is no future—just free and easy sex.

Sure, that sounds great, especially if your e horny and haven’t been with a ma in a while, plus he’s younger, but like you said—you WILL catch feelings for the guy. And what if he’s actually good in bed? You’ll be THAT much more attached to him... except there is no future there.

You’ll literally just be some convenient p-say for him. Chances are you will want more.

I’m not saying any of this to judge, to be mean, or tell you what to do. I’m had my share of friends with benefits. But if you know that you’ll likely end up catching feelings I’d recommend against it.

[Anonymous]

You either accept that that’s what it’s going to be or move on. No man who is in his 30s, 20s or even in his 40s is really going to be in a serious relationship a girl your age. I’m not saying it is t possible, but honestly the odds are stacked against you. I think right now he’s still at that age where fucking an older lady is more of a fantasy. I know when I was 25, I was messing w a girl who was 46. Wasn’t serious, just fun.

[JoahZ10nT]

He just using you for sex!!! That meaning he using you for pleasure but don’t love you. As a partner and Somone he could see spending the rest of his life.

[Dinklex3]

Just tell him no and that’s not the type of relationship you’re looking for.

Don’t set yourself up for heartbreak.

[shoeboxcerealcard]

You're sounding like he's the last guy left on earth. He is not in harmony with the type of relationship you want. Go find someone who is. It's that simple. Don't complicate it.

[Avicenna]

A 33 year old guy isn't going to get into a monogamous relationship with a 56 year old woman. But he'd be OK with you being one of many women he has sex with an no commitment to. That's what's going on here.

[SolivagantRises]

You cannot ask/beg someone for their love. Please try to move on. That's all I will say.

[MrDaveAPSI]

Then you need to decide if that's what you want to be with him. That's not for us to decide for you.

I'm sorry he only wants sex

[Staximus]

Those are unrealistic expectations. The guy is just in it for the sex

[spartan55]

Then you have a decision to make.

[Sam12348]

Did you really expected him to be serious?