I asked the boy I love, do you care about me? He said he doesn't care?

[Anonymous]

I like that boy very much, but he didn't like me, he even cursed at me, told me to get out of my life and blocked me. What did I do to him?

[_Maya_]

You move on. He has made it clear he doesn't have the same interest in you that you have in him. There is nothing you can do. You can't force someone to want to be with you or have feelings that are not there. That just isn't going to happen. Now you accept that he doesn't like you in a romantic way and you move on. The fact that he cursed at you tells me he is immature anyhow. You don't wanna be with a guy that is immature and going to stoop to swearing at you. That should be reason enough to write this guy off.

[Asker]

You're right, but I love him, it wasn't nice of him to hurt me.

[_Maya_]

No it definitely wasn't nice or the right way to go about it.

[Asker]

Well, he thinks I'm still after him, how can I show that I've forgotten him?

[_Maya_]

Best thing is to just ignore him and go about your life. Is he a classmate or someone you have to see often?

[Asker]

Classmate

[_Maya_]

That's tough then. Not much more you can do than just ignore him and go about your day the best you can.

[lightbulb27]

you tried to get close to him and his internal systems screamed "I'm not safe or I'm not worthy"... so get away.

He's very hurt person, may be difficult to overcome.

You'd be better to ask him..."do you care about yourself" rather than trying to connect with you. You'll be trying to pick up the pieces of his shattered vase.

[Somoneelse]

Move on and block him as well. He clearly doesn't give a damn about you. But one thing I miss in this story. question is how you asked him if he cares about you and in what situation. because no one reacts like how you said it in your post on just "do you care about me?"

[Asker]

I showed him that I love him. Does he see me as a pickle?

[Somoneelse]

As a what? Anyway showing someone that you love someone is a quite broad thing to understand as people have their own way of showing it. I believe, how hard it may be, to try to move on and focus on something else. You deserve someone who values you, not like this. Just block him everywhere and put no effort in him anymore.

[boggboss]

Move on stop throwing yourself at people that don't value you

[Asker]

You are right

[Night_Descends]

Leave him be. He clearly doesn't sound interested in you.

[Asker]

But when I talk to another man, he gets angry, I don't understand it either.

[Night_Descends]

He is just using you for attention, nothing more. Not treating you the right way by getting serious with you nor letting go off of you.

[Asker]

So now he thinks I'm still after him, how can I show that I've forgotten him?

[Night_Descends]

Just stop paying attention to him 😊

[Asker]

But I can't do it, if I stop for a while, I want to look at my Instagram account and check it like an obsession.

[Night_Descends]

Well that's something you will have to work upon, dear :D

[Asker]

You are right, I will succeed or will try to succeed, thank you for your comment.

[Night_Descends]

No worries 😊

[laly520]

move on

it isn't meant to be

[jahaims]

That isn't what love is lol

[Asker]

Please don't laugh, I'm so sorry already