There is this guy that I’ve been noticing staring at me a lot. Whenever we see each other, we lock eyes, he’ll smile and say “have a nice night/day”, “hello/hi” etc. I saw him a few days ago, and we locked eyes, but I looked away and when I looked back, he was still staring, so I gave him a slight smile and he smiled back. I used to be very adamant about the guy making the move first, but I think he’s attractive, and the only way to know for sure if he likes me is if one of us makes the first move. I know his first name and found him on social media (we all do it, don’t judge….) so would it be weird if I message him? Or should I try to talk to him in person more first? The only issue with talking to him in person is I don’t always see him everyday.
*To clarify, he is not a guy that I know well. We are still basically strangers, who just happens to see each other around frequently.
*I thought he was just being nice, but in my experience with other men (who are also strangers), they don’t stare or smile at me, so that’s why I think this guy is interested
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