Boyfriend rubs it in my face when he does things for me

[Anonymous]

When my boyfriend takes me on a date or pays for something, he always rubs it in my face as if I now owe him something. And he does it before I can even get a chance to do something nice for him.(EX: he paid for us to get into this event, then he suggested it was "my turn" to pay and to get us drinks, when I was going to do it anyway). I always acknowledge what he does and tell him how I appreciate it but when he rubs it in my face it makes me feel like crap.

[udolipixie]

He's a typical guy who thinks I'm buying her stuff she owes me but would most likely think you were a b*tch if you acted like he owed you because you have sex with him.

Sort of like how guys think paying for stuff means you owe him sexually but girls who f*ck guys who buy them things or make a certain amount of money are b*tches.

Time to dump him. You're acknowledging and telling him you appreciate it when he pays. You're also paying for things as well. Yet he's still a jerk.

[hot_princess7]

flip it around and start refusing to let him pay for anything for you

always pay for your half of everything, and make him pay for his half

see if he protests

i would actually take this as clue #1 that he doesn't see the relationship lasting

doesn't want to waste an extra dollar on you = he isn't that into you

[ALWAYSclassy]

Because he's only doing it because he has an agenda. He's not doing it because of kindness or because he doesn't mind, he has a tally inside his head about what he did for you and what you owe him in return. Sounds like a loser to me

[SamiePie]

what a jerk off. Don't let him pay for anything anymore so that's no longer an issue and if he offers say no