I like a guy a lot I don't even think he knows I exist how do I get over this extremely unhealthy crush?

[Anonymous]

[_Maya_]

You sort of have a couple options. One is to act on it and get his attention. If you think he doesn't know you exist you are going to have to make yourself known however you want to go about that. You can do that or just move on. If you find this unhealthy then you have to come to the realization that nothing is going to happen and move on with your life. I know that is easier said than done but keep busy and specifically keep your mind busy. The more idle time you have to think about him the harder it will be to get past it. So keep busy doing things so that your mind is occupied with things other than him.

[Asker]

Can I message you? Maybe woman to woman talk I may feel a bit better.

[_Maya_]

Sure. Message when you have a moment.

[Asker]

I just did. Thanks.

[Anonymous]

Either confess to him and get rejected so that you can move on, or talk to him and actually get to know him. Who knows maybe you’ll have a chance.

[Asker]

He’d probably just laugh at me or think I’m some silly girl.

[Opinion Owner]

Aw… what made you think that way?

[Asker]

He's a guy. What do you expect.

[Opinion Owner]

If he’s not immature then he wouldn’t react that way. You’d be surprised at how tolerant and understanding guys can be even if they look like total f boys from the outside. I mean you have a crush on him for a reason right…

[Asker]

Yes. I’m incredibly stupid that’s why

[Opinion Owner]

No you’re not, maybe just insecure 😔

[Jay-_-]

Look think about it, what do you truly have to loose, if you're thinking negative you either loose him or you loose him, go for it if it doesn't work out, you always got whoever truly deserves you in the future.

[Anonymous]

I wish I knew. I also have an extremely unhealthy crush.

[war_daddy]

you're so old. grow up.

[Asker]

Trauma victim here.

[war_daddy]

good for you

[Anonymous]

By talking to him

[Asker]

I already know that he won't think I'm good enough for him.

[Opinion Owner]

U don't even know that 🤣

[Asker]

I know how guys like that think. Trust me he'd view me as there's nothing special about me.

[Opinion Owner]

Really u shouldn't think like that he might like you back

[Asker]

The real world is a lot more brutal than stories and fairytales make it out to be. No prince charming in the real world.

[Opinion Owner]

U don't know that 🤣