I have a huge crush on a guy who doesn't know I exist?

[Anonymous]

I barely know him in fact but there is a reason I like him.

I tried talking to someone about it who clearly thinks I'm insane. I am starting to think this too, even while knowing why Im crushing on him.

Do I need psychiatric help

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+1 y

Can a nice guy answer this question please

[Anonymous]

Nah, you need to see if you can meet the guy and then gently, let him know how you feel. Meaning, without dumping it all on him but reflecting to him enough to make you comfy you've let him know your into him and see what comes.

The biggest mistake I made was not letting people know for fear they might not return the interests. It's way better to let them know how your feeling (respectfully and only as much as your comfy to tell) so that, if they reject you, you know they aren't interested (helps moving past) and maybe you'll be super surprised to find their super glad you talked to them.

[noohair]

It is a fantacy crush, I can see why someone is telling you that it is crazy.

[Anonymous]

Why can't u try for it who cares what people think

[patois]

You like what you like...

[Asker]

Can I message you? No one is taking me seriously everyone thinks I"ve lost it (Maybe I have)

[patois]

You're already anonymous. It's not like a private message would make it more anonymous.

[Asker]

What if that person checks these forums

[Summeroflove]

You should just talk to him…

[Danny_dan92]

Say hi.




Problem solved

[Asker]

I know there's something flawed about me

[Danny_dan92]

I see

[Anonymous]

Having a crush at your age is disturbing.

[Asker]

Why do people stop having feelings when they're older