Why guys complain so much about dating scene now?

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Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Mainly because of how society is today , Social media played a big part on damaging people’s mindsets , sadly making people to be more selfish and less trusting of each other. Basically all guys’ and girls’ ’ are cheaters and will eventually cheat on each other. Most people are scared or nervous to be in a committed relationship because of the shit they see and read and hear about on a daily basis. That everyone is a backstabbing lying cheater, that really can’t be trusted. When people don’t get their way in a relationship with someone,, they usually run to someone else to save them , thinking the grass is greener on the other side , Social media played a big part of contributing to this nonsense and making people have more of a selfish mindset , making it harder for people to just water the grass they are already standing on and fix what is broken instead of just assuming your partner is always wrong and you are always right.
Learning to remove selfishness from yourself for your partner , is hard for many people to do for each other. When you learn how to remove selfishness and learn how to make your partner your number 1 priority over everyone else in this world , Your relationship has a way bigger chance of lasting the long haul over the short haul. I only date girls’ that knows what it means to remove selfishness for each other. That knows how to make me her priority the same way I make her mine , without that? Sadly her and I will have nothing but the convenience of each other , Love only grows when you make each other your top priority by trusting and respecting each other and removing selfishness for each other

DaveJord · Accepted Answer

Because back in the day there were expectations on things a good man was supposed to do and the things a good woman was supposed to do. In 2024 I am willing to declare gallantry dead.

Because in today's society, that started with feminist to redefining gender roles, to God knows how it will end... traditionally there used to be things men were expected to do, and things women were expected to do. Now days, women seem to want all the rights and privileges that they traditionally are expected to receive from a man, but they do not want to conform to traditional female roles.

So, the modern expectations placed on men is that they are expected to conform to modern expectations without the traditional benefits of being a man. While women expect to be treated with all the traditional costumes and curiousness. And if you are a woman that is self-reliant and independent, then you don't really need a man.

Expect for when you want to have a fling and then when you are bored of it, you can dispose of the man and replace him with another later, until you find the one that will cater to you, without demanding your respect.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

It's just rough, dude... it's tough to get excited about the prospects. Nobody ever knows what they want; they're all "finding themselves" (whatever that means). Everyone expects as much as they can get while giving as little as they can in return. There's no sense of loyalty. Friends will sabotage relationships. Many women make it abundantly clear that they don't care what men want in relationships.

And the price of admission for this gauntlet of chaos costs a whole lot of money!

Drew-1990 · Answer

Because it has become extremely hard for guys, don't get me wrong girls got it bad too everyone does but men seem to have it worse. It seems unless you are above average in looks and/or money you get ignored. And we have a dilemma with approaching girls. Girls still want guys to make the first move and approach them but we can also be considered creeps or bugging a girl if we do.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Trump made all kinds of things socially acceptable and whining is one of them. Victim mentality is one of them. It's not me it must be her type thinking. It's "I don't know why I'm unemployed and living in my mom's basement playing my PS3 with Cheeto enrusted fingers that I didn't clean off from when I jerked off 45 minutes ago" type thinking.

Harshbro · Answer

Because women have inflated egos, are lower quality (slutty, no homemaker skills, masculine) and only want to meet the best men (looks, money, status).

The top 20% of men are hoarding 80% of women while the bottom 80% of men fight over the bottom 20% of women (obese, ugly, single mums). Even these bottom 20% desire the top 20% of men.

Basically if ur not at least an 8/10 overall (looks + status + money) your fighting against most the male population for scraps

Anonymous · Answer

Because a lot of women aren’t worth dating. They expect men to be traditional while they’re out being slutty. They want to be independent, boss bitches but still expect men to front the bills.

JacobJordan · Answer

Have you seen the dating scene? Even as a married man the only thing I can say is thank fuckin lord I am married cause I wouldn't even consider dating a woman alive today.

Lokiion · Answer

Multiple reasons tbh because of technology social skills have deteriorated making it hard for them to hold a good conversation another is how they ate raised to treat a women also who they go for plays s major role

JayBones2469 · Answer

Because he they are poor. The dating scene is fantastic. You can buy a trad wife from a 3rd world country for the cost of a 20 year old Toyota. Literally 10k gets a skinny, energetic 20 year-old Christian that wants to have as many kids as possible

Lynx122 · Answer

Just wait 20-30 years and you'll understand.

Fireguy17 · Answer

It seems pretty confusing out there now. Who does what, how to act, where to go, all the tried and true things have disappeared.

BonzoInBitburg · Answer

Because its easier to complain then look in the mirror and fix the problem

RebelinSteel · Answer

They don’t, well apart from those on social media and they don’t count

OtterMan68 · Answer

TV and movies make it look so easy, but it's not. Also, they probably know guys who are pros are picking up women, but the guys complaining can't pull it off

SolitarySolace · Answer

Why indeed… The Mating Crisis: Why the dating market is doomed - https://youtu. be/txRSxee7gDo? si=WD6o7HRKZtZ93gxY

DextroShade · Answer

Most of them are invisible to women, so if you are a guy and you aren't Chad Thundercock you are not going to have an easy time dating.

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

Dating does seem pretty terrible theae days. I'd probably just stay single if my girlfriend and I ever broke up.

jahaims · Answer

A lot of females want to be treated traditionally without acting traditional

IslaTheWitch · Answer

any reason is good to complain :D

OddBeMe · Answer

Based on history, things don’t change that much. I’d imagine dating has always been hard.

Markymark92 · Answer

I’m not to sure, maybe because woman can take care of themselves and can be independent

Anonymous · Answer

For the same reason women complain about men just wanting sex.

Anonymous · Answer

Because 99.99999999995% of my matches on dating sites are a complete waste of time. Not one turns into a first date.

Anonymous · Answer

Its rough out there.

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