Why guys put nowadays so little effort to dating?

[Anonymous]

[BoopBoopBeep]

I put effort in when I find a top shelf woman. Too many instaprincesses who think they're a 10 when they're really a dark room 6 want the red carpet rolled out for them when they bring nothing to the table but an arguably pretty face.

For you personally, what do you consider so little effort? What is the bare minimum you would accept on a date so as not to describe it as such? Once we get a shared operating picture maybe I can answer that more intelligently, or at least my approximation of intelligently ;)

[Anonymous]

I'll assume you are asking an honest question so i'll give you a truthful answer. 2 reasons.

1. Most women unfortunately are a waste of energy for a guy. He knows AT BEST he's going to get rejected 90% of the time (not an exaggeration). So he knows right out of the gate it's a losing proposition.

2. Whether you like it or not. There'll always be a certain segment of your gender who'll give him some play regardless. And that makes it hard for the women who truly want a guy to make effort towards them. Because they'll choose the path of least resistance because it's a guaranteed win.

[MementoMori777]

Because women don't act worth it nowadays, I know some that are worth it exist but it's just unmotivation I guess, everyone is just trying to fuck and it's just not my cup of tea and changing them is just not gonna happen, I'm sure women can relate to guys being the same, the world is just messed up I guess.

[tzdc21]

Because unfortunately a lot of them have realized that not a lot of girls put forth effort into dating, so therefore in response, they are like, "If these girls aren't gonna put forth effort into us, then why should we do that for them?"

[spartan55]

If we aren't putting enough for effort it's because lots of guys are done with women who don't hold up their end

[boggboss]

What do u mean people as a whole put shitty effort when it comes to dating because dating comes so easy

[BarryLiverstone]

Seems like the idea of dating based on meeting online has caused a lack of effort. If two people meet irl it’s probably better.


What’s an example of little effort?

[AmeerX]

Because you are a little girl.
And because fyi, there is more to life then just sex and dating.
There is a higher purpose in our lives

[LiamJHayden]

Human nature is often this: put in as little effort as necessary to achieve the desired result.

[Astarlessnightsky]

What do you mean? Whats "little effort" to you?

[DextroShade]

Because most of you hoes ain't worth it.

[In_Trance]

For the same reason women do

[Anonymous]

We can say the same for women

[Anonymous]

Dating is boring