Why do most men not put in any effort on dating apps?

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I would rate myself about an 8 . I’ve been told I’m attractive by both men and women. I just signed up for bumble because I’ve been told it’s a good place to find a date online and to be honest I’m disappointed. Like 80 %of the guys are unattractive and maybe 20% girls are unattractive. I had an easier time finding a cute , interesting girl compared to a guy. The guys either looks disheveled, bad clothes, bad pics or boring profile, not only that, they are very bad at holding a convo unless it involves sex.. Same thing for Tinder. I’m always hearing about guys having a hard time getting matches. I’m sure if they put more effort in their pictures or bio and capable of talking to females like regular people they would have more luck. I’m not super picky either, I would date a guy with average looks with a good personality but apparently most guys on dating apps have neither qualities. Anyone know any other good dating apps. I know some people may find this offensive but it’s just an observation.

DaveJord · Accepted Answer

So honestly this the problem with dating sites for men. Because men usually out number women 3 to 1. Honestly most guys do not read or educate themselves on how to do a good profile and write up and post the right pictures so you are 100% right.

The good news is the that the better you get at weeding through the jerks, the easier it is to find the right types of guys that actually do put the effort into it and that is pretty apparent when they do. But yes you have to put the time into weeding through all the weeds to get to the few that matter.

I met my current girl friend on line, and been together for 6 months now and she is amazing and its been amazing.

The hardest part for a guy is finding a women that will give him the time, because they become so overwhelmed with requests and messages they give up on it. And talking to a women on line through a dating app is like talking to women in a bar packed full of mean, and having the conversation interrupted all the time by every guy walking by saying hi to her. Sometimes all the attention goes to the women's head and they start setting some really high standards because they think the next man is right around the corner... which is true, but is he really the right guy or just the bright new shinny object that distracted you from the better guy.

Simple fact is for guys its all about volume, only 1 in 10 women they post to connects with them, out of those 1 in 10 only 1 in 3 of them result in a date, and only 1 out of every 3 first dates results in a second date. So if my math is right a guy has to post to 30 women to get a 1st date and then 90 to find a women that leads to a second date.

I got that on line, but for me I did pretty well... I had like 17 dates in a 3 month period, with 6 second dates... until I found my current girlfriends but I was working pretty hard... but was getting 2 to 3 responses out of every 10 I connected with. And by the second month I was getting pretty good at it really weeding out women better and finding the right types... so by the end I was getting responses from 1 out of ever 2 women. But still I went through hundreds of profiles, and got really practiced at it.

cth96190 · Accepted Answer

Because at least 95 per cent of men are invisible to women on dating sites.
Most women set height and income criteria that reduce the pool of prospects to less than 1 per cent of the global male population.
Yes, the typical woman is that far out of touch with reality.

Dating apps/sites are a complete waste of time for men.

You may find it interesting to watch a couple of YouTube videos about the experiences of women who created fake male profiles on dating sites. They were shocked by the way that women treated men and how impossible the sites were for men.
A creator named Alexander Grace had an attractive female friend pose as a man. After being mobbed by thirsty men on her real profile, she was shocked by how difficult it was for her fake male profile.
My eldest son is 25, six-feet tall, good looking, blond, well built, hung like a porn star, a student of karate and makes good money as a tradesman.
He could not get females to respond. Those who did were obnoxious bitches. A few were straight out insane.
After a few months of being ignored, rejected, or left wide eyed by female lunatics, he gave up.
Many, many young men have similar experiences.

silvermoon84 · Accepted Answer

Probably because online dating is like a numbers game (just like it is for us but more so for the guys since they’re still pretty much expected to make the first move). Also many women don’t always respond, and that’s our right. HOWEVER, men have a right to put minimal effort into if they feel they’re going to get minimal responses. Admittedly it does get annoying when I constantly only get messages with only one word, but I think it could be the guys way of deciphering if I’m worth any effort in talking to before actually forming a conversation with me so I always try to respond to messages that just say “hi” with “nice to meet you, I’m silvermoon84 (except I’ll use my real name lol). If he responds back, great. If not, it is what it is.
If it’s not that, it’s just that they’re simply not into you.

Snsl153 · Accepted Answer

"...80% of the guys are unattractive, and so are 20% of the girls", you say. Now where have I come across this ratio before? Oh yes, it appears in the Pareto Principle -
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pareto_principle
Do you think that perhaps, just maybe, your standards are unrealistic?
You claim to be an eight out of ten. Okay then, show us. Post a picture of yourself in an update :)
"The guys either looks disheveled, bad clothes, bad pics or boring profile, not only that, they are very bad at holding a convo unless it involves sex.."
I thought the "disheveled" look was trendy now. I guess I was wrong then.
"I actually see more attractive men in real life..." - Well, there's your solution to this whole problem then! :)

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Most women don't put in any effort either.

Though what you refer to as "effort" isn't even what I'm looking for in a woman's profile.

I want her to put zero effort into dolling herself up, I need to see her looking her worst, because thats what I'm marrying, not a box of makeup and carefully placed lights, she needs to look amazing with zero effort.

And I want her to write a damn book about herself on her profile, every interest, every hobby, personality trait, goal, preference, etc. because they need to match mine.

But most women just write 3 to 5 words in their bio and call it a day, or they write some stupid poetic crap, or some "life lesson", or a short blurb about what they think matters in relationships despite being trivial and vague and having no hobbies listed, so I skip them, because "I'm fun and down to earth and want something serious" is not a bio, it tells me NOTHING about her.

So yes, it's hard to find matches, and no, it's not because I don't spend an hour in front of a mirror or go to a photographer. It's because the women I've seen as options to pick, are fucking boring.

Also if you prefer women, date them instead.

Slim57 · Answer

Because most men realize it's a huge waste of time. What more do you want from men? I've changed my profile countless times trying to come up with a good bio and finally found one but it's still not enough. Even if we do match and still play by your rules saying more than "hi" you still don't even respond. I don't message stupid shit, never have, never will, and I don't have any douchebag pics or pics of me hunting or fishing that most girls don't seem to like on there either. But to top it off, you women, 90% of you on there, not all, have the EXACT SAME SHIT, everyone of you! Be tall, I like tattoo's, my kids are my life and always come first, fur mom, make me laugh, I love to travel, linking your Instagram or onlyfans or cash apps, or just not having shit at all. This is why men have stopped trying, because women on dating apps don't give 2 shits about putting forth any effort whatsoever. Dating apps are a waste of time for any average man. And I speak having actually had luck off of them. Still not worth any of the dates I got for all the bs just to get one.

Anonymous · Answer

A few things come to mind here.

First, quality men are not using dating apps to find women. If you're looking for a good man, you're obviously looking in the wrong place.

Second, let's consider you for a minute here. You consider yourself "about an 8", and yet you're using dating apps to try to find a man and you're "always working". Um, trust me when I say that from a man's perspective, you are not an 8. Not even close. I would bet good money you have no clue what a good man wants in a woman.

Here's some sound advice to you and other women like...

-- Educate yourself on what a good man actually wants in a woman.
-- Work on yourself and try to become a better women, one who actually offers some value to men beyond sex
-- Work on your attitude... no self-respecting man is going to give a flying fuck about a woman with your attitude because he knows he can easily do better
-- Look for a good man where good men are found, which is not on dating apps. Duh.

This site is entertaining in a comical sense, but really sad at the same time.

MCheetah · Answer

Because most women don't put any effort in online dating, in general. Tinder is quite literally choosing people solely based on superficial looks and women wield ALL the power in online dating, and dating in general, and THEN have the gall to ask why don't some men bother displaying personality anymore?

Also, you are definitely not an "eight" or above, especially at 31. I'd bet money on it. And if you're queer (into girls), then you're not even a "five." "I'm not super picky, either." Riiiiiiight... 🙄

VanillaSalt · Answer

Because as guys we know… Either it’s gonna happen with minimal effort or it’s not gonna happen at all. Everything’s based off the picture. If your hot she MIGHT read your bio but she’ll probably just like and then talk to ya. Unfortunately most guys don’t know how to take a good selfie lol. Their too busy having fun to take picture and show off their fun with friends where as women get off on that kinda thing.

So TLDR. Guys are either naturally cute or the effort required to be successful on dating apps outweighs the benefits. Minimal efforts still the most effective solution.

Futureboy · Answer

Sorry but my expirience is 100% different. Most woman profiles I see list all the negatives that they don't want in a guy. That or they just say message me to find out more. Plus the fact men outnumber women alows them to be more shallow. I understand you have to have some physocal atraction but i my case I can not and will not get a face lift just to get a woman. I much prefer what's on the inside and things we have in common. I spend a lot of time crafting nice messages to get no replies. I did an experiment where I send several nice messages got no replies yet when I messaged asking for fun/sex women have no trouble replying labeling me all kinds of names. Yet they seem afraid to say sorry not my type or thank you for the nice message. May be different in USA but in Uk thats my personal expirience when it comes to dating sites.

Slartybartfast · Answer

I only used them for three week before deciding I'd rather be single. In fact online dating is what convinced me to give up on women entirely.

Attractive women don't need it , it's just a tool to get attention for them or promote an onlyfans account.
Most women online never write anything in their bio.
Most women online have only face shots to hide obesity.
Most of the accounts are fake, old accounts etc. As men are the source of money if they removed the bits, old unused accounts and onlyfans promotion there works be almost zero women on must sites except for morbidly obese single moms looking for someone to pay their rent using pictures from 1982 when they were 27.

genericname85 · Answer

if you knew what it's like on there as a man, you'd understand.

so you read all those guides on how to best behave so that you have success on there. then you get on there with the best intentions. you message a few girls that strike your interest with a witty individual text. no reply. so you write way more women with less efforts in text. no reply. then you think to yourself "fuck it" and only text "hi" to like 1000 girls of which 1 or 2 answers. one being some sort of scammer. the other not being intgerested at all making conversation with her feel like trying to run in quicksand. by that time you're not getting any more likes, cause the algorythm at that point doesn't push you anymore unless you pay. and even if you do pay, you only get more of the shit i just described.

maybe this makes you understand why men stop putting effort.

FictionalCharacter · Answer

Reading these guys opinions, shows me and everyone that they proving the girl statement/post.

Guys are twisting what the asker is saying. Whenever she said “The guys either looks disheveled, bad clothes, bad pics or boring profile, not only that, they are very bad at holding a convo unless it involves sex.. Same thing for Tinder”. This is a FACT from the girls point of view when it comes to online dating. I have seen guys posting nude photos, while flipping out the finger.

Another thing, while swiping through guys photos. All guys look alike with the same poses. Ex: 😎😎😎😎😎…..😎🖕🏻😎🍺😎🎣

VikingWarLord · Answer

I doubt you're an 8 out of 10, that's Instagram Model hot. The 8s and 9s are models, and the 10s are UNICORNS (they don't exist, only in fairytales). Send me some pics and I'll be BRUTALLY FUUCKIN HONEST if you're anywhere close to an 8, especially at your age over 30 you're almost to the WALL.

I've yet to see anything hotter than a 7 out of 10, most of these Heauxs don't take good care of their appearance, most are overweight or they chopped their hair off and have tattoos everywhere, etc.. Then over half these Heauxs are on ONLYFANS and you find out they want you to pay for a subscription.

ronaldo75 · Answer

Women on dating sites are not worth the effort to men of value and stature. Also I've worked for a tech company that administered a very VERY large dating app (you're probably a member) and women only answer an average of around 0.5% to 1.1% of messages and normally only 20% of men can get a response within 10 tries. 1% of men can get a date within 10 tries. So... like... what's really the point? I have a life. I can't spend all my time swiping through a fucking app for days and write corny messages to *maybe* get a response after 100 or 200 tries. Almost 500 messages to get an actual date? Nah. I have more value than that. a lot more.

Novacane · Answer

I can agree to that, a lot of men don’t really put effort but that’s usually an all around thing, involving their socials. One thing I’ve noticed is that when women see a man with a really good profile they usually are met with the “he’s doing too much” so it’s either doing to much or not doing enough sadly. I also want to point out that most men are socially unaware, while women are more socially aware, that’s why you see women social medias being more creative then men because women put the effort to show everyone vs men don’t really care as much. Also do you date women as well? As ask this because you mentioned that you see less unattractive women then men, which I agree with but one thing i noticed is that women who date both men and women tend to have different standards for women than they do for men.

Zealconsumesme · Answer

Stop working a dead-ringer job and definitely don't use dating apps, never! Those sites are for meatgrinder relationships, you're the product, your future's the product, horny unwashed bland coomer men lurk there and only seek to relieve their penis not talk about feelings; You'd have a longer shot offline also cut your shit, some men aren't gonna look nice or like prince charming, that's been the truth since man it's all about finding a man that can provide for you, maybe you'll meet one at a church, gym, anywhere dudes really straighten-up and fly right

ArtemisSilver · Answer

I don't put a ton of effort into my profile because I get as much or more attention without doing so

Also I end up deleting mine pretty quickly because I met someone s

As for bothering to stage a photo, well, unlike a lot of women who use filters and such l like to show what you'll actually be getting

As for finding most men unattractive, you do you but I find a lot of women overestimate their own market value.

Lastly, there aren't many brilliant female conversationalists on these apps either.

Imsmurter1 · Answer

Can you critique my profile? I’m on bumble and I really like the girls and I’m desperate to get a girlfriend because I’m old and alone. I read self help books but it takes a lot of work to have an amazing set of pictures. I tried some effort though so please give a look.

HighValue · Answer

1. Learn what "average" means.
2. Guys that are online often just copy/paste their profiles or put in little effort because most of the time they get contacted by scammers and that causes them to not want to waste their time with details.
3. Make sure that you try to bring as much as you expect from others. Compare what you are looking for to what you have to offer someone.

Anonymous · Answer

The majority get nearly 0 results no matter how much effort they put it in, so it's not worth it anymore. Swiping right thousands of times and only getting 4 dates over 5 years is obviously going to be exhausting. If you never see her again, that's time and money wasted you will never get back

You say you would date an average guy, but average is literally all in that 80% you consider unattractive. When guys do get attractive they know they will never get another chance being that young again so they tend to make up for lost time by sleeping around as much as they can. If the remaining 20% of men you mentioned are good enough to be attracted by a woman, chances are they're good enough to attract many other women

slatyb · Answer

"Like 80 %of the guys are unattractive " So? Ignore them and focus on the other 20%. After divorcing I joined match. com. Guess what? 95% of the women were not attractive to me. In the Dallas metropolitan area there was about 1 new woman a month that I would consider dating. Still I had relationships with several women I met there, and eventually met my wife.

FakeName123 · Answer

"I actually see more attractive men"

Exactly. Attractive men that are successful with ladies don't use online dating nearly as often. Mainly beacuse online dating is strongly favouring women and not worth it for men.

Additionally you sound like you have an inflated self-worth. I will tell you a secret. At 31 you aren't as attractive as you were 10 years ago. Time is catching up.

ohshee · Answer

I don't know about any other guys better I have started maybe five or six dating apps I get about a quarter of the way through it and I'm bored already and I never finish it I never even go back on there for me I think it's just weird meeting somebody on a dating site
I guess that's wrong for me to say because I've never ever follow through with it the.
For me I think I would rather meet somebody in person I don't know maybe I will try again someday

CasaNorba · Answer

last time I check both Bumble and Tinder are actually HOOKUP apps. therefore if you are looking for a date on these apps then I'm sorry to say this but you're one big naive fool with her hopes too damn high. but at least you're not alone cause a lot of women who use these apps are on denial and swear is not a hookup app when the functionality says it all.

till then why not try OKCupid, Match. com, eHarmony and the other ones that real dating apps

glennos89 · Answer

For me dating apps are not working at all. I'm kinda old fashioned when it comes to relationships and I'm not addicted to my phone and I like not having to be present on my phone all day long but the woman I met at dating sites kind off expect me to be on my phone every day but I just have my days that I don't spend any time on it and there things always go wrong for me and dating sites aren't made for people like me I guess

blissinanarchy1 · Answer

Men typically realise something. Since girls got a much higher pool of guys to pick from online, standards get unrealistic. Guys that a woman is interested in, in real left, might get a left swipe online. And a lot of girls want matches for validation and have no intention to date or even reply.

MysticDevice · Answer

Cause 1 out of every 70 women on these things is actually a real person. The rests are bots, scammers, or catfish. With those odds what's the point.

I tried for years in all the apps and had no luck whatsoever. I put as much effort in as I could. But again, if there's no real people on the other end then what's the point.

Subarugirl · Answer

Because it's a numbers game for a lot of them. Ask enough people for a dollar and eventually someone will give you one. A lot don't actually want to date, they don't actually want to put the effort it takes to building a relationship and want the benefits of on with out doing the work. Most of them just want sex, it's easy enough to tell which ones. If he cares enough, he will put effort into his profile.

jshm2 · Answer

They do.

You're just a prude, and old fashioned. Hence have failed to keep up with the dating game.

These days the "look" is all about appearing "WFH" and looking like you rolled out of bed, but have places to be.

The bio's are about coming across working class, and out to party.

But you seem insufferable though, and you're not getting a date because of your judgmental ugly attitude. Your "looks" mean nothing,

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

She said she's not super picky but 80% of the guys are unattractive. Why should someone make an effort if most women on an app will just leave them on read or not even try at all. Are you even engaging in conversations or just being short?
Maybe you're not putting in any effort or maybe you're super picky?
I don't know, I don't use dating apps and sites. But by reading what you wrote, I don't think you're worthy of a date or relationship just yet.

DavidRaul · Answer

Well i be myself on a dating app, and still don't get a match. I get a lot of matches on fake profile where i am not myself. So what should i interpret from this, that girls fall for someone whos fake. I am the same on a dating profile as in real life but women they arr totally different when i meet in real. at least i don't use makeup and fitlers to display mu true self and why should i be ashamed of it. A decent girl would always match my profile.

Shamalien · Answer

My profile is interesting but nobody fking reads it. 80% of guys unattractive? Yup that’s what most women say. Just goes to show how goddamn picky they are about dumb superficial shit. I gotta waste money on nice clothes to impress women? Who cares about clothes they get wrecked in a couple of years, I spend on tech stuff

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Dating app are a waste of time. I mean if you are bored or want an ego boost go for it. But they are too easy to use and too many options are out there. If a guy looks good and has a good personality he can ask his friends to set him up or meet people irl. Lots of guys (and girls) will be sexual because it’s like a game with no penalties

hahahmm · Answer

Same reason why you don't see men paying $35-$80 for meat at a fast food joint. You chose to put yourself in a marketplace full of shallow/low value women and you'r shocked if dudes don't go in there treating you like you're made of gold.

Anonymous · Answer

The fact that you believe someone has to have a bangin’ profile on a dating app with captivating pics is quite the endorsement for men to try on-line dating.

It’s sad that this is how some people try to find relationships. Especially when people have somehow managed to meet someone and fuck for thousands of years without the aid of a smartphone.

😐

Guanfei · Answer

Why would we? Girls don't care, they go for the highest earning, hottest guys and disregard the rest.
Any average guy doesn't have any chance on those apps, girls there think they deserve the perfect prince charming and won't go for anything else than a greek god.
Also, we don't care about look as much as you girls. We post normal pics, that represent us in our everyday lives, while you try to look like the models you're not.

peedy · Answer

Well it cost to much money and correct me if I'm wrong but women get on for free and there is a lot of bullshit on those apps, example I live in a very rural area and one of those apps or sites was tell me that there was 100s of drop dead gorgeous women in all these very very small towns around the area, when I know for a fact that the town has a population of 20 people that are mostly elderly citizens so those apps/sites are a bunch of lies

Paul09 · Answer

You tell me. Maybe you are super picky. I try do many different profiles. I don't excalty have a lot of pictures of myself either Fun profiles. I liked tons, rarely ever get a like back . I hate dating apps. Oh and men usually have to make the first moves.

Anonymous · Answer

I had good luck on OK Cupid, but it also probably depends on where you live. There were definitely a lot of men that were in the city, and I live about 1.5 hours from the city. Either way, I liked the way the app encouraged people to answer personality questions, etc. that made it easier to get to know someone. I met my boyfriend on OKC a little over 2 years ago, and we've been joined at the hip ever since.

Anonymous · Answer

I have a similar experience, though not a such high percentage, but surely more good looking men in real life.. I guess most men on online dating apps/sites are some who don't have much of a social life (at least not with women), and spend a lot at time inside in front of a screen. Not really the type of men I personally find the most attractive.

Waldoe · Answer

Maybe you learned something about men... I am one... we are not very "Verbal" grunt grunt... We do not like to talk for hours about shoes... We don't care, if Susie lied to Fred about the cost of her visit to the beauty parlor... In fact, I don't care... Men do not know how to attract a women with words... grunt grunt... we are much better face to face... hubba-hubba

Intothevoid666 · Answer

Really cuz most times I match with and then message a girl on there they don’t even reply and most women have no bio either and their pictures are often all selfies of them at home. Just saying I’m sure a lot of men don’t try on these apps but there is absolutely no way the women on there are trying harder.

Twalli · Answer

You have to realize everyone on dating apps is damaged. There's a reason they aren't finding luck elsewhere. Granted it might not have been the case at the height of COVID-19. Now you need to realize that there is a reason those people are seeking dates on apps instead of real life.

This_Is_My_Opinion8 · Answer

I laughed so hard when I saw this question. I haven't scrolled down yet, but I know, I just know what kind of answers you will get here.
Is a fact that guys can't make a decent profile to save their lives. Blame society that doesn't say we are sexual objects and so we don't take proper care in that sense.

Guy13 · Answer

Most women on those things are just swiping and messaging to take up free time like I’m doing now. It’s a huge waste of time. More meets and sex from activities and bars than all those apps totaled. It’s a great moneymaker though.

Honesttguy · Answer

Dating apps dont work for men, so its stupid to invest much effort in things that dont work. You wouldn't paint and put new tires on broken car.

TrillXHippy · Answer

Dating apps are trash, having to pay money just to talk to someone is pointless because when you run out of coins you gotta spend more money which will never end, dating apps are trash, a bunch of messages say the same thing word for word baiting you to waste money

godfatherfan · Answer

And who the fuck are you to judge? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I would bet there are plenty that think you are in your lower category. Just because you are snobby, doesn't mean everyone is.

Avicenna · Answer

Everyone knows you meet better people IRL. A lot of those online profiles are fakes, catfish, people trying to cheat on partners, people seeking affirmation not a relationship or looking for followers on Insta or Only Fans

normalice · Answer

It would be like putting effort into selecting numbers for a lottery ticket. Men's success on dating apps seems more luck based than anything men have much control over.

sheikalana · Answer

Perhaps the guys in your area are not very handsome. Where I live it was also a struggle to find someone decent but I was very persistent and found my husband after a bunch left and right swipes.

Anonymous · Answer

Most guys don't look good and are not high maintenance like girls. Girls spend a lot of money on grooming for years. Plus guys don't wear makeup and don't take photos everywhere, every time. The once do are professional players who have no job than having sex with women and they are successful in that way.

aialex · Answer

Heard someone said once, "the ratio men to women is 1:20. We don't have to fight for company but you do" Shut him up when I said "why would I fight for half-assed like you"

Sour-rose · Answer

Mainly because ladies wanna be a crazy ho. And they're tired. tired of dealing with a crazy bish or catfish. :)

SolitarySolace · Answer

In my case I'm not actively searching for a partner. That's why I only use bumble when the women are meant to send the first reply and because I know they rarely ever do, I have nothing to worry about.

red324 · Answer

You sound like the typical online dating girl. I've been on countless dates with girls and it's always the same story. We go on two dates, three if I'm lucky then she no longer has time anymore because she works all the time and that's the end of it.

Friendlybro79 · Answer

Maybe the effort you speak of should be put into not judging them based on their profile but in real life. If you're going to rely on online dating you might what to just try meeting some of these guys and see if there's more than meets the profile

KingofCups · Answer

Maybe you should put more effort into interacting with people IRL. Dating apps are really a huge waste of time and energy for most men.

Anonymous · Answer

It's funny because I heard about Bumble because on there women have to make the first move and now they know what it's like when no on responds back. Tinder is a scam, people looking to hook up. Dating apps are a waste of time and women are always looking for the to 10 percent of men. I can hold conversations, but that doesn't seem to matter at all, but if you like cute girls, date one of them, it's fine.

dudeinohio · Answer

Anyone expressing interest in me usually liked me. My conversation was not sexual. I just had normal conversation. I didn't come off as creepy in either my profile or my conversation. I guess this got me ahead of other guys.

TexasRed95 · Answer

People in general are getting more lazy. But also I would guess being burnt out from dating. They probably have had so many that don't go anywhere. But they feel like they need to be with someone. That would be my guess.

itsalyssaagain · Answer

Because there's a lot of options and they're either sick of putting effort in after being rejected continuously or they're just bored.

annabananna · Answer

I think dating apps attract some of the worst people. It’s possible to find a good one but you’ll have to go through a lot of frogs.

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