Why do most men not put in any effort on dating apps? (Page 2)

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I would rate myself about an 8 . I’ve been told I’m attractive by both men and women. I just signed up for bumble because I’ve been told it’s a good place to find a date online and to be honest I’m disappointed. Like 80 %of the guys are unattractive and maybe 20% girls are unattractive. I had an easier time finding a cute , interesting girl compared to a guy. The guys either looks disheveled, bad clothes, bad pics or boring profile, not only that, they are very bad at holding a convo unless it involves sex.. Same thing for Tinder. I’m always hearing about guys having a hard time getting matches. I’m sure if they put more effort in their pictures or bio and capable of talking to females like regular people they would have more luck. I’m not super picky either, I would date a guy with average looks with a good personality but apparently most guys on dating apps have neither qualities. Anyone know any other good dating apps. I know some people may find this offensive but it’s just an observation.

GreedGod · Answer

What's the point of putting efforts when women have so many options to choose from. Dating apps are waste unless you're top 20% of the men.

Smallboobsgotohell · Answer

Ua re 31 years old u are expired not many options that u have

Vegasrunner · Answer

You're actually right on par. Studies show that women find only about 20% of men online attractive. It's more a psychological thing than anything else.

captain_voidwalker · Answer

How dare those 80% of men you don't find attractive try thier luck on a dating app. They should just fuck off and die right?

zagor · Answer

Sure women put more effort into their app profiles - unfortunately when you meet them in person they often look nothing like their online pics.

lofii · Answer

BC there's no point in putting in effort when you're just gonna fuck a chad at the end of the day

TheFlak38 · Answer

We definitely see how much effort women put in them. Just posting selfies fishing for thirsty messages and likes.

TuxTheAstronaut · Answer

dating apps are just a waste of time all people pretty much only choose people based on looks and not really anything else

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Your update says it all.. If you barely have time than why the fuck are you wasting it on dating apps?

Anonymous · Answer

Because dating apps are just for hookups so are treated as a game

Jltakk · Answer

No matter what effort you put in, men will barely get any messages or matches. Maybe your standards are impossibly high?

nawtee_me · Answer

Dating apps are for hookups and not really for dating. It is to easy for people to be fake when online.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

We don't want to put in effort on our profiles, because we don't want to attract shallow women. It's a filtering method.

Anonymous · Answer

Hah, another drive-by from one of GAG's regular bitter female users under her latest GAG account. How long before you go inactive with THIS one? LMAO.

Chthou95 · Answer

A woman complaning about men on a dating app that favors her more than them? Interesting 🤔

Ryfyle · Answer

I doubt you even looked at any of the profiles and were just looking for dudes that appeared reasonably wealthy.

RandomGuy1030 · Answer

You should actually have an easier time finding good looking guys on apps. Ugly ones usually deactivate.

Anonymous · Answer

Because it's a waste of time. Especially since 90% of women are going for the same 20% of men, it's pointless.

MrJMM · Answer

Because a lot of them don't care at all and they just want sex.

beechman2129 · Answer

Girls have too many options, so the odds of a girl responding to a guy is very small.

legalboxers · Answer

I do.. but when you give 150% and when y’all give 2.. why bother

Anonymous · Answer

You question is best answered with a question: why do dog shit women rate themselves an 8?

ZSean · Answer

personally women I see on dating apps put in wayyyy less effort because they can

msc545 · Answer

Unless a man is obviously wealthy good good-looking and tall women will ignore him.

SignedAutographs · Answer

Dating apps, absolutely SUCK I wish they no longer existed

ManHater · Answer

It's not a problem with the tits me lord its the bitch inside that's the problem.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Same reason why most women don't put any effort on dating apps

Anonymous · Answer

Why should we, women only use those apps to get attention or free shit.

Anonymous · Answer

It is hard to put any effort into dating apps when; your efforts either go ignored or subverted by scammers and sex workers.

Anonymous · Answer

You find more women attractive then men... over considered that maybe you're gay?

Anonymous · Answer

Bitch , shut da fuk up!

Pohjolan · Answer

Women rate 80% of men below average...

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Because it's not worth the effort

scott04sa22 · Answer

Dating apps are a waste the money

Anonymous · Answer

Because women don't... AT ALL!

Uptowngirl88 · Answer

They're not interested in you. Get over it

jasco · Answer

Because dating apps are basically for hook up

incelraheja · Answer

I would like to see your self proclaimed 8/10 face

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

Lol I dating apps are a trap

Aphrodite801 · Answer

Sign up for Tinder and Hinge

baserunner611 · Answer

Good 👍 question; I don't know

anylolone · Answer

Congratulations, you played yourself.

Berhudarol · Answer

I won't date with a girl who is in a dating app.

jamartheg · Answer

Who tf even uses a dating app 💀

Anonymous · Answer

Coz they wanna stay away from a woman like you

EaterPeter · Answer

It's waste of time

UpdateGloomyNights_ · Answer

They're are fully

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