How do I get him to actually slide tf in my dms?

[kareenakapur]

there's this hot guy he liked my insta story i liked his. we have hella mutuals. he lives far from me but his hometown is same as mine and he went to my college but he's older so i never met him. he wished me a happy birthday and a happy eid. he seems interested but like i want him to slide tf in let's talkkkk but i told myself to stop running after men. have them run after me

[LostGirl9]

Depends on the guy I guess, usually I make it clear I’m single to avoid any miscommunication, most of the time if he’s actually interested (and confident) he’ll respond to pretty much anything you post, especially if you already sorta know each other, some guys seem to prefer starting conversations with jokes (like memes or just funny captions), others only need a thirst trap but I’d stay away from them, especially since most of them only answer with emojis and they’re really not the best conversation starter

[HateyouxD]

You can always say hi and then let him lead. Women have to be open for approach. Which means smile more or say hi

[Anonymous]

Honestly I’d say you clean up your talk first of all. Appear more educated. You sound like you’re a teenager. If he’s older chances are he wants someone more mature, more feminine. The biggest thing though is are you cute? If you don’t have the looks that door is pretty much closed.

[kareenakapur]

I don't know he keeps posting thirst traps so i just posted one back lol and put him on my close friends story. me in a crop top nude colored

[Opinion Owner]

Ok so you looking to just get plowed by this dude or you hoping for more?

[kareenakapur]

both

[Opinion Owner]

So well honestly right now if I was him from what I’ve read as far as what you said, your pics, etc, I’d think you’re just for fun. I’d think you get used a lot so that’s what I’d do as well. I wouldn’t take you serious.

[kareenakapur]

but I also told him hope he had a blessed day when he messaged me

[kareenakapur]

ugh he's already seen one and he didn't heart it that was awhile ago

[kareenakapur]

but then he dm'd me happy eid and i told him hope he had a blessed day. ugh i deleted the sexy gym snap I'm sad. i looked so so hot in it. even hotter than the other time

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah if I was him honestly you just be for fun.

[kareenakapur]

ugh but i want my husband to know I'm sexy too and i want to have fun with my husband

[Opinion Owner]

lol ok. Not going to find him the way you’re going about it. You’re going to find men who will just use you.

[kareenakapur]

ugh i know. : ( I don't know how to meet a guy normally. i just want to be like LOVE ME LETS GET MARRIED AND FUCK ALL DAY. that's what i want :( why can't i find a guy like that too

[Opinion Owner]

A lot of men will fuck all day if they can. But like I said right now you’re giving off that vibe you’re just for fun then it’s time to move on

[kareenakapur]

ugh guess what i added another guy that i used to talk to on that story too but that guy he hearts my stories. He asked for nudes and i said no and he ghosted me but i still intermittently talk to him bc I'm dumb and get lonely. i added him on the insta story for the ego boost. but like i deleted the story and no one saw it.

[kareenakapur]

TELL ME WHY THIS MAN ASKS ME IF I DELETED MY INSTA PIC WTF he didn't even watch it I'm so conf

[kareenakapur]

and wtf do I say. yeah i deleted it

[Opinion Owner]

Sounds like someone you shouldn’t even be taking to. Have you actually ever had a long term relationship? I ask cause you’re almost 30. You looking for kids too? What do you look like?

[kareenakapur]

He's the brother of this girl im obsessed with. Like im in love with his sister she's super Instagram famous and has been commented on my stuff lately. i did have a long term relationship: ( this whole fiasco started after we broke up. We broke up 1 year ago. We were together for 7 years. He couldn't stand up for me in front of his parents. His parents were against us getting married. His mom thought he could do a "taller" girl prettier girl and big thing was we were different religious sects. I glowed tf up after that. He wanted to be friends with benefits. I said HELL NO but ended up doing it. went from guy after guy after guy searching for someone to love me and hold me because I didn't know how it felt without someone since I was a high schooler. They all broke my heart. One was SUPERR toxic love me and break up with me next day again and again then got with his ex. I just got out of a relationship 1 month ago longest since my first ex (was ongoing for 4 months) he said im a great person but like he didn't want to lead me on etc. He just used me and wasted my time : ( . I didn't respond to his last message but he hasn't messaged ever since. I was so nice when he was breaking my heart.

[kareenakapur]

im looking for kids yeah. im not 27 I'm 24 by the way. I look cute and petite. I think I'm pretty attractive. i dress realllyyyy well.

[kareenakapur]

back on the guy who just recently broke up with me. he figured out he passed his huge test the day after he broke up with me. and he thanked me for my endless support :(. i would facetime sext him everyday like we would do that and talk and study for hours every day. I told my parents about him after the 4 months and he flipped saying how can he trust me with his privacy :(. that was a red flag but i even supported him and said I'm so sorry and i won't do that again etc bc i care about him and understand the importance and extent he wants privacy.

[kareenakapur]

i look super young I think thats part of my prob is people think i could be in college or sometimes i get high schooler. I'm superrr petite no big tits or ass but i have abs.

[jasonjk]

Man I'm glad you stopped responding to a kid.

[kareenakapur]

@jasonjk what?

[Paul_in_Indy]

It’s silly to try to be passive. If you want to talk, talk to him. It’s immature to try to wish him into talking to you. Just talk to him and see how it goes,

[spartan55]

Right, great strategy. Then the ones you don't want talk to you.

[Mark987]

Just message him and say thank you for the wishes and send a heart at the end. Write I hope to get more messages from you with a wink face.

[bananathunder]

Lol just hit him up

[Bklynbadboy12]

Why don't you just slide into his DM's