Best way to slide into a guy's DMs?

[Anonymous]

I'm recently out of a multi-year relationship. In college, there was a guy who was interested that I vibed with a lot. I didn't pursue a friendship since I was in a relationship and I felt being friends with the guy would be risky since I was crushing on him. We haven't talked in years but would it be weird to reach out? And how would I start?

[WhitneySnow]

“Hey. Remember me from college? What’s up?” Or something like that. He’ll probably be flattered you remember him.

[CanadianLearner]

You can be indirect to see whether he takes the initiative.

Something along the lines of what @lucifer_666 suggested.

[slatyb]

Hey Sean it's Janelle. I was thinking of you and wondered if you would like to meet me for... sometime?

[Lucifer_666]

Tell him that you used to know each other in college. Then ask him what’s he up to in life.

[goebenbreslau]

send nudes. he will be happy.

[Asker]

Bye.