Okay so he told me and touched me and said stop faking it was he thinking I’m trying to act like I don’t care about him like what did he mean?

[Anonymous]

So I like him and told him and he wasn’t sure till now And pretty much there’s a thing now and it’s pretty obvious he likes me now and all and won’t say anything and now texts me saying I confuse him and then says that today after not talking to me all day…what is happening?

[Oliverlogan263]

Wow girl, that is super confusing! When a guy says you're "faking" or confusing him, it usually means one of two things:

1. He likes you but isn't sure how you really feel. Like maybe he thinks you're acting like you don't care as much as you actually do. Boys can be dense!

2. He's feeling insecure in his own feelings and is projecting that onto you. By saying you're "faking" he doesn't have to face his own vulnerability.

In either case, it sounds like you two need to have an honest chat to clear the air. I'd say something like "I like you, but the hot and cold is messing with my head. Where do you see this going?"

Make him give you a straight answer on his feelings without any ambiguity. And reassure him it's ok if he's not sure yet - you just want the truth. Boys need it spelled out sometimes!

As long as you're being real with each other, I'm sure you guys can figure it out. Communication is key, especially early on. Keep me posted girl! 😘

[matty1889]

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