Me and this guy are pretty close and work in the same industry and hangout together a lot. One of our mutual friend (guy) confronted him jokingly through text if we are a couple. He didn’t say yes or no but brushed it off as “i thought you guys were a couple.” Our mutual friend then texted him “well, you guys hangout together a lot and post each other often.” He responded with “she’s just a homie and i wouldn’t date someone from the same industry.”
Our mutual friend keeps telling me he thinks that guy kind of likes me because he didn’t flat out say “no we are not a couple/not dating” and said his excuse of “not dating someone from the same industry” is an excuse but doesn’t mean he doesn’t have feelings for me.
From a guys pov how does his respond sound like? Do you guys think he has a crush on me or not?
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I meannn its not much to go off on
I literally see no sign that he would be into based off of what he said. But there COULD be a sign of him liking you based off of you two always hanging out and posting eachother, I said COULD.
Also him saying you're just a homie ain't a good sign for you. I feel if he liked you he wouldn't say he wouldn't date you, would probably just try to change the subject or brush it off. But him answering straight forward ain't too good of a sign
But he could also be changing up what he's saying because he knows the other guy will probably tell yo ass
Has he shown any type of flirting or shown any type of interest?
Him not giving a straight forward answer could just be that he likes you as a friend and him saying he doesn't like you could ruin a friendship. But I feel like him saying he wouldn't date you is pretty straight forward to me🤔😂
My advice is don't look to far into it. Just assume he doesn't unless he gives you more signs because of he ain't into yo ass and you confess your feelings or some shit. It's gonna be one awkward rest of the friendship
It sounds, like most guys, he doesn't like talking about it. It's not any indicator one way or another how he feels about you. If I would have received messages like the ones you described I wouldn't have even bothered to respond.
not necessarily