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+1 yMost likely it means that, like a lot of guys, he’s still suffering from the inability or unwillingness to express himself fully without lowering inhibitions with alcohol and/or drugs. That and rejection is always easier take when under the influence.
You may or may not have contributed to his feelings and his desire to express them.
My experience suggests most women are unwilling and/or unable to create a truly safe space for a man to express himself, and most men learn that the hard way.00 Reply
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+1 yIf truth be told he’s either horny or he has feeling for you.
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1.8K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Means he knows how to hit speed dial.
If he’s drunk it doesn’t mean anything because he’s not in his right mind.00 Reply
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+1 yWell alcohol lowers inhibitions in most people. This can result in a more honest approach for that duration. Meaning he may actually like you but isn't willing to risk saying so when sober. Also could be that the lowered inhibitions allow him to say what he normally wouldn't. Either way if you like him you should tell him while he is sober. Might change what happens
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+1 yIt means he doesn't have enough courage to talk to you without a shot or two in him. Not the most ideal situation. He should be able to have a conversation with you without the booze.
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Asker+1 yDo u think he likes me? If he didn't like it, wouldn't he call? He called and said let's meet. We met the person I mentioned once for sex.
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He probably likes you or he wouldn't call.
Asker+1 yOww It is too sweet. But after 3 months he called
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You mean 3 months between when he last called?
Asker+1 yYess
Asker+1 yWe met 3 months ago and he didn't call. I wrote and told him that I missed him, he said already?
Asker+1 yI wrote to you like 4 days later, but I mean, we had just met.
Asker+1 yTo him
Asker+1 yThen I wrote a few more times, he didn't seem to want to talk much, so I stopped writing, 3 months later he called and said I missed you, I need you.
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Interesting, I wonder why the long wait?
Asker+1 yMe tooo
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If they like the girl, most guys don't wait 3 months to talk to them again.
Asker+1 yWhen I asked him about this, he said that a lot was going wrong in his life and that he couldn't get his head together.
Asker+1 ySo he doesn't like me?
Asker+1 y"Come on, let's cuddle and sleep, don't think sexually, I need you right now," he said.
Asker+1 yAnd he insisted for a long time for me to go, but for some reasons I couldn't go.
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I think I would want some more details about why his head wasn't together for those 3 months, last thing you want to do is start seeing someone who just went through a big break-up and is on the rebound. He should be able to tell you why. You sound like a nice young woman, so be sure you check things out before getting to far into it with him.
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The drinking and contacting a girl can often be a sign a guy is on the rebound and hurting. Needs the booze to numb the pain.
Asker+1 yActually, I think he was a bit of an alcoholic, so those around him said so. And he really drinks too much almost every day.
Asker+1 yHe is *
Asker+1 yHe told me that he was very lonely and unhappy.
Asker+1 yHe will tell me when we meet again.
Asker+1 yBut he says he's already forgotten his ex so long ago
Asker+1 yI'm so confused, so you don't think he likes me very much?
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I definitely think he likes you. I'm just saying be careful and go slow if you are going to take him up on his offer.
Asker+1 yThis made me very happy. But here's the thing. We didn't meet yesterday and he didn't write anything on it.
Asker+1 yOkay, he insisted on meeting, he said, "I have something to tell you", but he never asked about it, for example today, that's why I'm confused.
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Be careful, if he's an alcoholic, it is highly unlikely you can change him if he is and they can be abusive depending on how he reacts to the booze.
Asker+1 yIf he likes you, is it that hard to send him a message for 3 months?
Asker+1 yLikes me *
Asker+1 yI mean, I saw that he was very drunk, he wasn't very angry, he just kept saying that he was very sorry and so on.
Asker+1 yWhy can he be so sad
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I guess if he wasn't in the right frame of mind then three months is not that long. You would at least expect a little messaging back and forth though, to get to know you better...
Asker+1 yAnd I believe that if we have a serious relationship, he will stop drinking. Because I think he's drinking because he's alone, and if it's me and we have kids, I guess it'll be okay.
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That's something you would have to ask him. Could be a number of reasons.
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If he doesn't stop drinking or get control of it in the first month or two then I would call it quits if it were me. I would even give him an ultimatum early on.
1.1K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Probably he can't find someone he considers better.
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Asker+1 yEven with money? Couse he has money and he doesn't bother goin to escorts
Asker+1 yMy English is not very good. Could you please make simpler sentences if possible?
Asker+1 yHe wants love then?
Asker+1 yBecouse escort only dont provide love right?
779 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. It means he thinks you'll cave to a booty call or have already in the past. Definitely doesn't mean he cares. Guys will be more cautious with a girl he cares about unless he's a walking red flag.
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+1 yIt could mean anything. He could be depressed, lonely at the moment, sex charged, excited, insomnia. Alcohol is a very emotional enhancing drug.
00 ReplyDrunk people tell the truth. People who are afraid of talking when they are sober will definitely tell the truth when they are drunk.
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+1 yYou don't need anyone like that. That's a horny call
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+1 yHe is either very shy and gets liquid brave when he drinks, or he just wants sex
00 Reply1.2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. I would say thats only drunk talk
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Asker+1 yWhat u mean by that
Asker+1 yDo you think it's ridiculous that he needs me and says he misses me? :(
Asker+1 ySo he doesn't actually think about these?
+1 yHe's a dick and wants sex!
00 Reply1.2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Beer goggles really work for him!
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+1 yThat she's nothing serious for him.
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+1 yBooty call fuck buddy. 💯
00 Reply 1.5K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. He's not making good choicex
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Asker+1 yWhy u think tht
he think a drunken shagg
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yShe drives him to drink?😆
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Asker+1 yWhat u meann
Asker+1 yNo no not at all the guys already drinks sometimes
+1 yProbably wants some pussy
00 Reply931 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Because you allow it
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+1 yHe’s horny, but chickenshit in real life.
00 Reply 1.4K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Stay away stay away stay away and run away
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yHe's looking for a booty call
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