Guys, Why does he only call when he's drunk?

leahcar57 wants to hear from Guys only. Login to share your opinion.
You understand that drugs/booze loosens up the pent up inhibitions & releases any cares about rejection to even odd proposals, ergo the invitations that hope to end in sex.
It doesn't end in sex so this and his drunken acts weigh on him as embarrassments to harsh to face, ergo NOT acknowledging you face-face for awhile when sober.
You can believe he lusts after you and perhaps DOES get something warm & fuzzy out of spending a celibate night with you.
He's shy. Also every time you fool around he wants to have sex but he's waiting for you to innitiate. Then he leaves and realizes how lame that is and is mortified of talking to you because he didn't "man up". So he doesn't text until he inevitably gets drunk enough that it cuts through the anxiety and he just acts on instinct, telling you how he feels. Rinse and repeat.
Probably because he's not himself. When he's clean, it's REAL and he has to deal with his feelings. When he's drunk or high, he doesn't care about that. That's not to say what he's saying isn't true, he's just able to say it without thinking or worrying about it at all.
Lol... and people STILL think guys who say girls like assholes are wrong or "just bitter" or other such feminism inspired nonsense.
Sweety, you and women like you are the proof.
Is he using you? Duh! You think? Not only that but he has to be drunk to want to be with you. Do you need me to tell you what that means too?
Booty call. And exactly, he's using you because you'll answer.
He's scared you'll reject him. He only speaks his mind and feelings when drunk.
Because when they are drunk they only tell truth to everyone but at that time he tell his all truth to his lovable one and call her.
Either he values your opinion but can only show it when he's drunk, or he really doesn't want you to sleep. Tell him to talk to you when he's sober.
some guys are not very good with expressing and feel confident while they are drunk..
thats only when he finds the confidence to be smooth with you... .
He wants a bootycall...
Most Helpful Opinions