Me and this guy were in a situationship for over 5 months. When we first started talking he would take me on dates and we would talk on the phone and text everyday. One day he caught me talking to a guy and got told rumours that I was talking to the guy to make him jealous. Which mad him & upset Since then we haven’t been communicating much but he keeps saying that was not the reason for us not talking anymore. One night he got really drunk and confessed all his feeling to me. Started talking about us having kid, getting married and how much he liked me etc. But then after that he would not talk to me the whole week and only call me on the weekends when he is drunk. So I told him I don’t like that and we should just be friends and he agreed. But til this day he keeps calling me endlessly every-time he gets drunk wanting to see me. his been doing this for over 3 months now. What does he want from me? (Ps we have had sex but I haven’t had sex with him in over 3 months. After I told him let just be friends)
Because you are a convenience to him , he doesn’t hate you but his intentions are to use you , alcohol can make people open up their deepest feelings sometimes good like how they really feel about someone what they like about you , what they feel about you etc.. .. and sometimes bad , insecurities regrets , resentments , etc.. so his intentions for calling you when he is drunk is to try to get you to want him again, so he can fuck you again pretty much, to get you to want him. When I drink alcohol I am usually a happy drinker I become more outgoing more talkative and more smiley. But sometimes that isn’t always the case sometimes I can be a complete asshole , if I feel depressed or betrayed , or is someone backstabbed me like a girl I liked I can turn into a vicious asshole that I become very defensive and I don t take shit from no one I will make it clear to her that she is a selfish whore that only cares about herself I will point out all her selfish traits , I don’t like being angry when I am drinking but sometimes it happens so lately if feel angry or upset about something I won’t touch alcohol cuz I know I will turn into an asshole , all in all alcohol can make people do good and bad stuff
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He wants to keep you as a regular cum dumpster. No man wants a fuck buddy as a baby momma, but he does want to drain his balls regularly.
He has unresolved issues when it comes to you that come out when he has been drinking I am thinking. He wanted more than you did and you cast him into the friendzone. Perhaps you are okay with how things ended but he does not seem to be. I don't believe you two can be friends. You may need to block his number so he can be forced to move on.
He probably has some feelings for you but he isn't really interested in dating you if he only calls you when his judgement is clouded otherwise he would still be in contact regularly. You told him that only drunk calls bother you and he still hadn't changed this, you told him that you want to be friends and he agreed.
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It seems he wants your P…. When he’s drunk.
He wqants to keep you busy
Cause he looking for booty
What the fuck is a situationship?
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Sorry
Because you allow it
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