My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half. We would non stop text each other in the beginning then we got into a pattern of me texting him good morning, him calling me when he'd wake up, then again on his way to work, texts throughout the day and me calling him to say good night (he works evenings). About a month or so ago, things changed where he just wouldn't call. Just respond to my morning text. Sometimes I'd neglect to send the text and he'd call upon waking asking if things were OK. Now if I do that he doesn't react that way. We also got into an argument recently where he was basically telling me he'd be to tired for sex and I got upset because we only see each other once a week (we used to see each other every 3-4 days in the beginning). He said I put pressure on him because I want it all the time. He also had trouble getting it up one night (was really drunk) but he got worried and embarrassed I ended up crying asking if there was someone else and he cried and asked me why I always doubt his love for me. Is this normal for a guy? I'm automatically thinking he's getting it else where. Did I do something wrong? He does tell me he loves me through text and in person and always upon ending a call no matter who is around. He does talk about having kids, being married. He just doesn't reach out as much as he used to (yes id always wait for him to reach out because I don't want to bother him), doesn't share as much of his day to day, sometimes will ask what I'm up to, does make an effort to see me on one of his days off. Please help.
My boyfriend doesn't call/text as much as he used to - is he losing interest?
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