Do Guys Like to Be Called Daddy by a Romantic Interest? Is it Normal?

[Anonymous]

A guy I've been talking to told me to call him daddy in the middle of sexting and I'm still shocked to nowadays. It happened two days ago already. (we're only 4 years apart)

And well, that rlly caught me off guard lol, especially cos I've never thought of this term for anything else other than a child calling their father.

[MrOracle]

Many people don't like it. Others really like it. However you feel about it is fine.

One thing to understand is that, in the vast majority of cases, there's no incest fantasy happening. Instead, it's more of a Dominant/Submissive vibe, but one where the people are perhaps closer and more loving/intimate but still both want the Dom/sub dynamic. Many Dom/Sub relationships actually have the people involved keeping themselves at a distance from each other - meaning they aren't necessarily each other's primary partner and may not even have sex - it may only be BDSM play.

The girl calling the guy "daddy" is both a sign of her submission (and his leadership) and ALSO a sign of their closeness and affection for each other. I guess you can say it's a more romantic flavor of Dom/sub BDSM.

That may give you some insight that you didn't have before...

[Siri137]

No, it's sick. "Many people don't like it" - an understatement if ever there was one. The vast, overwhelming majority absolutely hate it, because it's indicative of a twisted mind and lost soul.

[HelpfulWoman]

XD XD both me and my partner cringe when we say it, and we say it because he's literally dad to our two boys

[Siri137]

No, that's sick. You shouldn't have a desire to have sex with your father. Ew, yuck!

[Boomchakalaca]

Some r into it like myself.

[The_Sexpert]

"What the hell is even that"

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

No. Sounds creepy and nasty to me.

[dudeinohio]

No way