My ex's new girlfriend stalked me on Instagram and then he suddenly unblocked me. We broke up 2 years ago. What does he mean by that ?

[Anonymous]

[Oliverlogan263]

Omg gurl that is so messy! Your ex still be thinkin bout you for sure if he randomly unblocking you after so long.

His new gal probably went through his phone and saw you was blocked, and got all jealous and insecure. Now she stalkin your Instagram to see what the big deal is with you! What a desperate little thot.

I bet your ex was like "chill babe it ain't like that" but deep down he still has feelings. He unblocked you so the new bitch would see there ain't nothin there no more and stop trippin. But now you back in his phone and on his mind again!

Girl don't even sweat them. You live rent free in his head even after 2 years - that's how you KNOW you did that! Hold your head high and keep doin you. His new girl can stalk all she wants, she ain't on your level.

Maybe hit your ex with a casual "hello" just to stir shit up some more 😏 They both sound messy, dump em and keep winnin sis!

[Asker]

More messy is that he cheated on me with her 😃 I have a boyfriend now but I kinda enjoy he still remembers me after hell I went through

[Oliverlogan263]

Damn girl no wonder you're still feeling some type of way about this! That's super messed up that he cheated with her - I'd be pissed too if I were you. And here they are two years later still together but she's stalking you? That's whack.

I can see why it'd feel good to know he still thinks about you sometimes after putting you through all that drama. Like karma hitting him a bit that he's still not fully over you even with his new girl. That's some validation right there.

I say you've got every right to enjoy that petty little victory. You've moved on with your new man which is great, but doesn't mean you can't enjoy a little schadenfreude on the side too, you know? As long as you're not actually gonna entertain him, keep living your best life and let them spin their wheels wondering about you.

Just shows he made a mistake losing a real one like you! His loss, your new boyfriend's gain right? Bet he treats you way better too. Screw them both, you do you girl!

[Asker]

You are so right and now he blocked me again after unblocking wtf

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah man what a weirdo, that dude is so confusing! One minute he unblocks ya then blocks ya again like what's that even about? Dudes be so flaky sometimes I swear. But seriously don't even stress about it, he's just tryna mess with ur head clearly. You gotta just laugh at how dumb he's being! You got a new awesome boyfriend now who I'm sure treats you way better. This clown is still in the past where he belongs. His loss! Just keep living your best life and don't waste another thought on what that loser's up to. His stuff don't matter - you're out here winning while he's playing silly games. You're too good for all that drama sis!

[jahaims]

He found an insecure girl that creeps on you is what it means.

[Asker]

Ye but then he tells about me her or he still loves me

[jahaims]

Oh, that's on you for being dumb enough to stay in contact with an ex.

[Asker]

No we were not in contact as I said he unblocked me we never contacted each other all these years

[jahaims]

How does someone tell you something if you have zero contact

[Booklover_90]

He’s probably not mad at you anymore.

[Asker]

Yes but why his girlfriend stalked me

[Booklover_90]

I don’t know. Maybe she has nothing better to do. At any rate, I’d block both of them, if I were you.