If you told a guy not to talk to you ever again with whom who talked everyday would He get hurt?

Xper 1 Age: 46

Yes it does hurt. It is the worse pain there was when my wife who I would spend most of my time texting with her and spend hours on the phone talking with her (like we were in love) the woman that I spent the past 10 years talking with (and only 7-10 nights that we didn’t sleep together in the same bed) then one day she takes the kid without telling me where she was going, only with someone that has a hit out on her head (that I’ve taken guns out of her car *because if you don’t know how to use it or you won’t use it, just hand it to Mr. Killer and hope the person you’re running from just kills her and only her dumb ass, and leaves the rest of my family alone.” But when two women are together they become “super dumb” and can’t listen to what is the problem. Needless to say, I was getting angry because they were 200 miles away and I was the only protection they had. They knew where they were going and wouldn’t tell me because they thought I would tell someone that I didn’t talk to where they were going (you know? Like a real smart woman thinks) they block my phone number because they wouldn’t simply just say where the fuck they were going! I was wishing that I left that gun in the car cause at least I know I taught my wife how to use one. They called the police on me for harassing phone calls and they thought I was going to do something “crazy” and then I yelled at the cops because of how stupid they are but I couldn’t mention the gun I removed from her because I’m not allowed firearms (due to some legal issues ten years prior) should have left it in her car and told the RCMP that fhe had an illegal, sawed off, fire arm under her seat loaded… with my wife and child in the vehicle…

But shortly after this shit show my wife unblocked my number when they returned with that bitches daughter that they didn’t want me to let the daughter’s boyfriend (that I do not talk with other than when he is over ***with his fucking girlfriend and no other time (not even when we are having a slumber party and doing each other’s makeup ) * like regular guy stuff 🤬🤬🤬*** I am a guy that doesn’t give two fucks about someone else’s daughter and who she is fucking!

Thanks to this, the damage was done. The one girl that i protected from people driving by her house, following her car home at night with headlights on, waking up a 3:00am to make sure she was in no danger.

Because of that night I refuse to forgive either of them for being so stupid. Things wouldn’t go back. I was in a vehicle accident a month later that I wish I died in ***I wish I would have died in the accident because I could have died happy: died with a son that loved and adored me, died thinking that my wife still loved me, died with hope of fixing our relationship. But instead I woke up in a hospital bed: with a tube coming out of my ribs, draining black liquid in a bag, hoses coming out of my arm, hoses coming out of my other arm, a clamp on my finger, mask to cover my nose, a mechine with 4 bags of blue, red. And clear pumping in my arms, a mechine that goes “BEEEP” a mechine that goes “GURR-GURR-RINE-RINED!!!” Like it’s about to make some fresh ground coffee, the famous machine that goes “DING!” A 1/4” threaded rod going threw my right knee bone, knee bone connected to the wire cable, wire cable connected to the pulley system, pulley system connected to the weight system, weight system connected to the gravity system, pulling my leg so I grow taller on that side, I’ve got hardware!!! I can put shelves on my leg! I’ve got another hose with a bag of dark yellow hanging from my woo-hoo… this is worse than death; I’VE WOKEN UP IN A FUCKING DR. SEUSS BOOK!!!

My wife left me in the hospital. Was cheating on me with a coworker (that she denied the whole time) and because I had a problem with it I was given a “do not contact order “ / r”estraining order” I was to quit talking with a person that has my child, has spent 1/3 of my life with (12years) has all my property. And I am to walk away from it all like nothing matters and I don’t care about anything. ***court systems makes the word “Retarded!” A fucking complement! *** after my accident I am classified retarded and I am proud to have this label on me because if I’m retarded; what’s their excuse for being so ****fuck I wish I had time to think up a good title for the legal system, because now I am proud to call myself a retard because it’s b tier than being a judge…? A lawyer…? Aaaagh… give me a noun!!! Adjective!!! Verb!!! Judicial!!! YOU JUDICIAL🤬🤬🤬

Don’t just stop talking to someone. Don’t get the courts involved. Unless your safety is actually at risk, like actually at risk, not being yelled at because you’re fucking friend is telling you that you’re partner, after 12 years of NEVER hitting her, will he start now after she bragged to everyone about how gentle he was… (you can work things out! Just don’t get some dumb cunt that has been merried 5 times, 5 children that none have the same father. All her children are taken from her except the one that the court didn't appoint to the father because she is unfit mother. (Like after the first 4 failed marriages when do you realize that there is a problem with the bitch? DONT TAKE MARITAL ADVICE FROM A FAILURE (quantity dose not class as experience)…. Sorry going overboard on this bitch. Get help from a professional not a friend. The friend only knows to point blame at the other person.